You know what I think Johnny has a point there. I think you should send little unexpected money transfers and she'll be the perfect wife. When she's upset, hand her a 1000 note. When she's happy, maybe give her 500baht! You could always sell your car and possessions here if you're runin a little low...

DOUG The answer is completely obvious and right in your face. You're just status symbol / money tree to this 'bar girl' or whatever she is Get rid of her She using your money on her Thai boyfriend/Husband and of course the family. You're paying a huge price for sex right now, it's cheaper in Bangkok...