Surely anyone who has had 2 or more failed marriages/realationships is in a perfect position to give advice as to how not to make a relationship last. But to give advice or critisize a working realationship is kind of ironic. It must really hurt them to see someone in a lasting relationship. //comm...

Frankie 1 wrote:I'm "old school". I think about relationships differenty. I think that investments (not only money) into the relationship should come from both parties. Both with equal responsibilities and respect.

Otherwise it's a bit like keeping a pet.

Spot on Frankie.

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If your so keen to be the doting house father why, exactly, did you come to Thailand for in the 1st place. Obviously not to find companionship, which you did anyway. Obviously not to save money for your daughters future. I went to visit my mate from the UK who i had not seen for 8 years, and it was...

"You seem to have a 'down' on old men..............have you thought. of what you may be like when YOU are 70. With all the unnecessary stress and bitterness that you are imposing on yourself and others, I think it will be highly unlikely that you make it to 60. I do not wish this upon you, but unle...

BenZona - You giving relationship advice concerning marriage is akin to me (a self-admitted golf hacker) giving advise to a PGA player as to how to improve his swing. \:D/ Already pre empted ;-) Or even before your use buy date [-X which, at a mere 45 i am nowhere near..One Thai bird scamming you f...

Ben Zona http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=ben%20zona A Hebrew curse word used in Israel which means "son of a bitch" or "son of a *****". You can also say "zona" which obviously means "bitch or "*****". I am now starting to comprehend one's issue of supporting a Thai wife [-X He is mo...

jackspratt wrote:A bet would be interesting Ben - but then you would have to give all the details, including access to the court records/transcripts.

Pm sent and wager amount offered... (no beer)

I started some relations here in Udon with most warm feelings and trust. They broke in most cases about moneyquestions. Because you have not only your lady, but in most cases also the family, friends, interverence from the whole village and sometimes bad matchmakers who are all moneyinvolved. This ...

Credibility is going to be important when you are sitting in front of the Family Court magistrate or judge, Ben. :-k and who do you think has it Jack... the guy who is a single parent who has busted a gut to bring his partner out here and raise a child and as a vent calls the visa cheating dog exac...

Bandung_Dero wrote:
Oh stupid me!

I believe you should have quit at this first, rather candid comment, you see.. we DO agree.. because you are

You guys (the trolling foursome) would be lost in an evidence based proceeding, you are pathetic and if it makes you feel better thinking i was drunk at 6pm when i wrote that (even though it was 9pm and i was sober)then go ahead and think it. I could not care less and you make yourself look even st...

I've just re-read this post and can't believe what some people would consider a fare amount per month. The previous quote of 45.000 a month is ridiculous in the extreme. This equals $A 1515.00 per month or approximately 40% of my take home pay after tax. When you consider that I pay Mortgage, Car p...

Can you explain again what this means: :-k .............no point going there for a beer if am having to throw it up the next minute No point in who going there for a beer? :D . What the **** is going on here,that is my post Jack,not Benzona's :roll: If you have the time,read my post in the context ...

oh, and i dont drink alcohol.. Hmmm.....given it away since you got back from Thailand? :-k by BenZona June 12, 2011, 1:05 pm Nutty park Gossip Thanks for the info Mr Mash,will avoid Nutty Park like the plague,no point going there for a beer if am having to throw it up the next minute by some scary...

ME who is gong to F^^k HER over, legally of course........... communist shelter feminazis ............ mutual minge appreciation society.............. useless idiots........ wimmen can make u whatever the hell they like............. to get one over on a man............... tattoo saying "lying unfit...

Ben - setting out to f..k yuor wife is not a good idea. It will distort yuor perception and cloud your judgement. Australian family law courts take a dim view of this behaviour and do not permit themselves to become part of a "revenge" action. As jackspratt pointed out - the basic approach is "no f...

Plus "SHE" gets every consideration and Monitery consideration including Govt financed Lawyers, and "He" gets f....d over big time ;) Thank you Germain Grear and the Sisterhood, it wont be long before Slavery is re-introduced :shock: and I just know who the Slaves will be :roll: I could beat her la...

I comprehend just fine, you abused your wife either physically or orally , she left you, and now you must pay. You sir need to get over it and get on with your live or you will surely always be a loser. how do you know that? are you stating a fact? where is your supporting evidence? all you know is...

If you can't say something nice about someone don't say anything seems to be the rule here, at least from anyone who knows him. Interesting to get the thoughts of some farang who have actually met her a dozen times, at least, during his last trip here, and who support him as well,speaks volumes tha...

I comprehend just fine, you abused your wife either physically or orally, she left you, and now you must pay. You sir need to get over it and get on with your live or you will surely always be a loser. Yes seaman, you are spot on, take a bow for being so clever, your talents are wasted on ships, ha...