Buying girlfriends ex half of property

[NOLA]

Dump her immediately...Find yourself an orphan with no ex, no children and no distant relatives...Sign me, "Experience speaking".

[pella]

thank you nola but love has spokend so its not so easy to do so...regards Pella

[ULICK MC GEE]

Pella no offence intended.
Your Pearl of Asia will do all she can to help you and end up running the show,at meeting's,you standing there bewildered,if not a scam she is priceless.
When you start to become involved ,asking question's,making suggestions etc.If your pearl of asia suddenely become's a nest of viper's making comment's like,you no trust me,you think i same other lady,i see bad lady do ,i not same i good heart followed by tear's,it is a scam say nothing just walk away.
If nothing else thai's are consistant,any attempt to change the routine throw's them and they start to see the booty slip through their finger's,enter the viper.Any of the above are tell tale sign's of a con.
A broken heart is bad enough,being broke also may leave a bitter taste which could get you in trouble.
Man just take your time and be careful and apply the stock market theory"if you can not afford to lose it,do not spend it.
Best of luck

[bumper]

Look you sound bound and detemined to do this. Don't send 300K help her make the payments.

Ten make a visit with no notice and see waht you find.If things are good he ex really is ex, you can say you wanted to give a good surprise. Never put money in Thailand yuo can afford to love.

I don't know the lady, I'm really not sure you do either. How long have you known h her. Waht is the longest period of time you have physically sont with her. Dreams are easy to fall in love with reality can be a much different thing.

Yuor getting the information as it is coming from people with experience. most of us have been down that road in one way or another.

If yuo got to do this then limit the potential loss.

Would you do this for a girlfriend in your home area, If not why do it here.

My original advice stands don't do it. If you mean anyhting to her she won't walk away, if she does there are million more around, most worth taking the time to build a realtionship with not based sololy on large sums of cash.

[beer monkey]

Help needed.

I've had a girlfriend in udon for some time, and she is splitting the house with her ex husband ...and she want me too share the house with her, and take care of 50% of the payments, includes pay the ex out from the house with 300k, have any of you guys have any thoughts about this ? please reply I need some advice...best regards ,,,Pella

Has she thought about selling it, she gets her amount and the ex gets what they both agree too, then maybe you 2 could start afresh somewhere else.
What value is put on the house now..?

[aznyron]

why waste your time explaining to him he said I quote LOVE HAS SPOKEN so we all are spinning our wheels to convince him to go slow and watch for the signals but he is not listening I have nothing more to say

[747man]

A FOOL In LOVE is a Damn FOOL.......LISTEN UP MAN.......DO NOT send HER 300 K or Anything like it !!!!! Pay Attention,Or IF you REALLY are THAT FOOL,Then Go ahead get down to YOUR Bank.....lET ME KNOW & i'LL GIVE YOU my BANK DETAILS if YOURE SENDING IT !!!

[RALPHCUSENS]

ULICK MC GEE Wrote:



"When you start to become involved ,asking question's,making suggestions etc.If your pearl of asia suddenely become's a nest of viper's making comment's like,you no trust me,you think i same other lady,i see bad lady do ,i not same i good heart followed by tear's,it is a scam say nothing just walk away."


So what your basically saying is that any of the above is a con? if that so, what a load of cobblers!

If anyone, anywhere in the world is in a meaningful relationship, some of the above questions will be asked, if that is your honest opinion then, I hope that you have some sturdy hiking shoes, because I think you are likely to be doing a lot of walking.


Pella,

Most of the advice that you have been given,IMHO is sound advice, I for one understand that your feelings can cloud your thoughts, I re-iterate that some of the others have said, If the house is not on mortgage, get her to re-finance he ex husbands 50%, you then pay the mortgage, and then, I think it was Arjay that said, " It is the as if you were paying rent".

And food for thought NOT ALL THAI LADIES ARE BAD!!!!!!!!!!!

Best of luck to you

[dougness]

I would have to second what Ralph and Arjay said as well.If have known her a long time and thinking about a more serious commitment,I might say 300,000baht is small potatoes.But I don't know your situation.Maybe get an investigator to look into things?

[Kudjap or Bust]

Relationship must be going pear shaped already, Pella's removed the avatar of (I take it) him with the GF to just himself..........

[beer monkey]

Relationship must be going pear shaped already, Pella's removed the avatar of (I take it) him with the GF to just himself..........

Oooo yes....nice hat too pella.

[aznyron]

they post the question when they don't get the answer there looking for then the excuse's start to surface
if it was me I would NOT post it I would think before I acted and that could be a mistake because I might think with the wrong head but I would go slow let time reveal the true person within her when she see things are not going her way she may walk if she is one of the devious ones. I know because when I cut the funding of my last one she no longer wanted me. a good tell tale sign is spending a lot of time on
the computer and always leaving the room when they receive a call or they do not answer it in your presence

[papaguido]

why waste your time explaining to him he said I quote LOVE HAS SPOKEN so we all are spinning our wheels to convince him to go slow and watch for the signals but he is not listening I have nothing more to say

[thai 2 on]

If I am not mistaken, is there not a course offered at WBU concerning this exact topic

where's my half ???????????????

[rickfarang]

Why is it that she needs to buy out her ex???

There is no limit to the extent to which people will go to scam some money. There is a non-zero chance that her husband will be back as soon as you give her the money, or maybe he is haning around in the background now, and will continue to stay in the background while they wait to see how much the can squeeze out of you.

whatever the truth, consider any money you give her to be a gift, unless you can convince her to give you a usefruct. If she has an income and can refinance the house, the (Turbit's) advice to have her refinance the house in her own name would be the most conservative approach.

[pella]

thank you all for your interest in this mater....my gf and me have ben togethre for 2 years now and i have visit her in thailand for some time now,i have met her family and children and she come to me in sweden for 5 mounts and visit all of my family. if not i have never even think of buying 50% of the house, but it sems to be a HOT POTATO and i understand that, so thank you all for your interest in this....regards Pella

[jackspratt]

So mods - maybe it is time to close this thread =D>

[beer monkey]

So mods - maybe it is time to close this thread =D>

Why...?

thank you all for your interest in this mater....my gf and me have ben togethre for 2 years now and i have visit her in thailand for some time now,i have met her family and children and she come to me in sweden for 5 mounts and visit all of my family. if not i have never even think of buying 50% of the house, but it sems to be a HOT POTATO and i understand that, so thank you all for your interest in this....regards Pella

Thanks for a further insight,maybe you should of included this in the first post pella....i am sure you will make the right decision for yourself...

[jackspratt]

BM, pella asked the question - he seems to have received his answer(s).

Where else is this thread going to take us?