Paedophile in Udon

[beer monkey]

No i am not saying you posted them there figures Fawn....as you didn't ,.... i am saying that Fy is getting mixed up a little,... on the right track but took a wrong turn somewhere along the line....he needs to reverse and then try to find where he went of course.

[jackspratt]

There were no figures on age differences - just a strongly held opinion that a woman of 19 was an adolescent.

Which in 99% of cases, is clearly not correct.

[beer monkey]

Yeah...thats wot i said like kinda thing.......mind you i should of just said that it was more about opinion than mentioning of ages.....good job we keep JS around...i keep things on the straight and narrow..
So then that backs it up the Fy1810 Has definatly got his wiring crossed...bad instalation...you just can't get the tradesman now-a-days.

[Fawn]

No i am not saying you posted them there figures Fawn....as you didn't ,.... i am saying that Fy is getting mixed up a little,... on the right track but took a wrong turn somewhere along the line....he needs to reverse and then try to find where he went of course.

I know, good Buddy. That wasn't what I meant, I had a look for the 25 year reference on Intrenet Dating but there wasn't anything there. Jack was correct, my argument was that a 19 year old girl is little more than an adolescent.

[arjay]

Regarding 19 year old females, it depends on where you are coming from.

For a 20 year old or 22 year old male, a 19 year old female would be quite within range, acceptable, appropriate and fair game.

For a 66 year old male, a 19 year old female might be a tad on the young side!

[Fawn]

For a 66 year old male, a 19 year old female might be a tad on the young side!

Agreed, downright bizarre in my book.

You're hardly going to take a 66 year old man to the happenin' clubs that your Rajabat Uni chums go to, are you. May as well take Nanna with you.

'Have you dropped your tab of E yet, Nanna?'

[beer monkey]

More like a sennacot, than a E.

[jackspratt]

Regarding 19 year old females, it depends on where you are coming from.

For a 20 year old or 22 year old male, a 19 year old female would be quite within range, acceptable, appropriate and fair game.

For a 66 year old male, a 19 year old female might be a tad on the young side!

You are perfectly correct RJ. However, it neither makes the woman an adolescent, nor the man a paedophile.

[Fawn]

You are perfectly correct RJ. However, it neither makes the woman an adolescent, nor the man a paedophile.

OK, I see where you're coming from, although you have to agree the relationship is inappropriate or do you believe it's a matter for them alone?

[jackspratt]

Westers I make no judgement about such a "relationship".

In my own case, I would think long and hard about going there - and then say, no thanks

But I guess it depends on what you are looking for - both he, and she. Maybe he sees only a year or 2 of bliss ahead, and she a big pay off for her investment.

Again, in my own case, I was looking for something much more long term, and fortunately I seem to have found it

[Irish Alan]

Columbia Encyclopaedia:

pedophilia, psychosexual disorder in which there is a preference for sexual activity with prepubertal children. Pedophiles are almost always males. The children are more often of the opposite sex (about twice as often) and are typically 13 years or age or younger; they may be within or outside the ***'s family. Sexual fantasies, looking, or fondling are more common than genital contact. Sexual offenses against children make up a significant proportion of reported criminal sex acts.

The cause or causes of pedophilia are not well understood. Personality problems may be evident, and the *** often shows little or no concern for the effects of his sexual behavior on the child. Researchers have reported that psychotherapy in conjunction with the use of testosterone-lowering drugs has substantially reduced the desire in male pedophiles to molest children. See also child abuse.

[laphanphon]

Researchers have reported that psychotherapy in conjunction with the use of testosterone-lowering drugs has substantially reduced the desire in male pedophiles to molest children

a bullet seems cheaper and much more effective.........100 % effective. reduced desire, not thanks, no desire does sound much better, or is that ability, either, works for me.

[jingjai]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/***

In law enforcement, the term "***" is generally used to describe those accused or convicted of the sexual abuse of a minor (including both prepubescent children and adolescent minors younger than the local age of consent)....
...In common usage, the term refers to any adult who is sexually attracted to children or who sexually abuses a child

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Again...what is the age of consent in Thailand?

For a 66 year old male, a 19 year old female might be a tad on the young side!

As long as it is within the law. Who are we to judge appropriate or inappropriate behavior?

[seymourbutts]

In a pewvious post about |michael Jackoson i called him a child molestor and bob helm took offence and said he was not convicted of being a child molestor so therefore he isnt,,,
A 65 year old man doing a 19 year old is not a peadophile either!!!!

Sorry i disagree on both counts.... to a 65 year old man a 19year old is so so so much younger and the word being "young" here it IMO is no different than a chid to a 65 year old...... And michael Jackson was a child molestor he paid 20million dollars to a young child that correctly described the mole on his cock!!!!

But for the PC brigade he wasnt, to me a father he was!!!

[BobHelm]

You may well disagree SMB but that certainly does not make you view correct, on either count.
To give a word (or series of words) a different meaning to that agreed by all the dictionaries in the world would, I would suggest, make you incorrect, rather than the rest of the world.
To look at facts & evidence rather than rely on emotive statements does not make anyone Politically Correct, it just makes them Correct!!

[jimboLV]

.... to a 65 year old man a 19year old is so so so much younger and the word being "young" here it IMO is no different than a child to a 65 year old......

Only in your dirty mind.

[jetdoc]

I've said this before, the age difference is not as significant as the age of the lady. At 18 or 19 she is still a teenager, so one would be wise to reflect on how teenagers behave. I've known a few in these types of relationships and they all complain about the ladies behavior which is quite normal considering the age of the lady.

[BobHelm]

I could not agree more jetdoc & personally would have zero interest in entering a relationship with a teenager & all the trials & tribulations that is bound to involve. If someone else does than good luck to them (as they will undoubtedly need it) but it is their business and does not warrant others falsely using the word 'paedophile' against them.....foolish or inappropriate maybe, paedophile no....

[RALPHCUSENS]

As much as it goes against my personal preferences, at 19, a girl is of the age of consent in most countries, so who are we to judge, or class a man who chooses to have a relationship with a 19 year old girl a paedophile.

As much as I believe that the case in question here, has not a hope in hell of working, that is down to the poster to decide whether a 40+ age difference can work.

If a man strikes up a relationship with a girl that much younger, that is his decision, and if that be his preference, the best of luck to him.

I fail to see, why some posters sit in moral judgement, when it is legal. My only comment would be what is HER ULTERIOR MOTIVE?? $$$$$$$$$$$$$$, or is it his exceptional youthful good looks, his verility?

[Fy 1810]

=D> =D> =D> agree 100 % . got nothing to do with me , and i certainly would not be interested myself , well not in relationship anyways ! why do some people have to take the moral high ground ? and if the guy gets taken to the cleaners , again , not my problem .