I just want to tell a story,....

Post by **WALTERJ** » March 9, 2008, 11:42 am

the same thing happened to me , i was scamed. but what you have to remember there were red lights and we both drove forward without stopping . in life never let someone but you second take yourself out . it hurts but it works

Post by **Spirit** » April 7, 2008, 3:02 pm

Well people, really thanks for everything. It was, finally, good to lose her. She was a real liar. I knew a lot of things more about her, and now I must to be happy because she went with him. Just tell thanks to all of you, thanks everybody.
I'll be in Udon on next september, maybe I'll meet some of you. I want to enjoy without pain, and I'm sure that I'll enjoy a great time....
Thanks everybody again...
See you soon...

Post by **beer monkey** » April 7, 2008, 3:39 pm

Yes Thats 'The Spirit' Spirit.

Post by **Spirit** » September 30, 2008, 3:55 pm

Dear People:
Last chapter on this story...finally, after 8 months without knowing about her, she called me yesterday, from USA, telling me that she loves me, that she never loved anybody more than me...
Crying, telling me that she tryes to be ok, but it's hard ...

You got the reason guys...
When things were not ok on there, then she remember me...

Post by **bigwavedave** » September 30, 2008, 10:31 pm

Spirit

PLEASE dont be fooled again.... You are over her now stay that way..... Understand this.... The next guy that comes along with lots of money and shes off......
LOves you????? I dont think she knows what that means!!! Loves money i can agree with!!!

Spirit... If she loved /loves you she would not have gone to USA with the rich guy!!! Remember that!!!
Its my guess that the guy has caught her playing the game with another rich guy and has ditched her, and the ONLY reason she has contacted you is to pay her air fare back??? or am i just too cynical???

Post by **Spirit** » September 30, 2008, 11:33 pm

Yeahh, bigwave...thanks....I really know it....
I just wanted to tell it on here...
I told it in the beginning, I just wanted to tell this story, because maybe somebody could see the light anytime...
Thanks again....

Post by **Spirit** » January 16, 2009, 8:57 am

I'm here again...
Today a little bit sad
And please, you can call me stupid now, I know I'm stupid, but I keep on loving that woman...
Since she called me back a few months ago, we were talking so often...
Today she was crying, trying not to call me more...
She didn't ask me for money, or come back in all this time...just talking with me...
But she wants to live with me...
In Thailand...
I know, I'm the biggest stupid man of the world, but life is not easy sometimes, and hard to understand it....
just this...
Thanks for reading...

Post by **aznyron** » January 16, 2009, 9:17 am

put her on a budget give her 50 baht a day and you pay for food and no M/B or car or house put nothing in her name zilch you get the drift and use her for your enjoyment after all it fair she used you for hers now it payback time
she have any sisters or close female friends hit on them if they are willing to sleep with you do it get to hate her
and every thing she represents this is the golden opportunity for you to get even because a liar is a liar through & through they lie to get every thing they want but don't need I know a few like that here in Udon they turn my stomach
and don't ask me there names

Post by **BKKSTAN** » January 16, 2009, 9:29 am

A deceptive person is impossible to have a good relationship with,even if it is only occassional deception.Without trust,you have no chance at success!Save yourself the additional pain & problems and don't take her back.Change your phone to make it easier on yourself to avoid her and allow the griefing process to complete itself.

You will get past her if you want to!Get involved with friends or some type of project to focus on.Another woman ,sometimes helps,but until you finish processing your mistakes from the other relationship,you will still be vulnerable to make the same mistakes!

Good Luck and find friends that will validate your feelings,but still point out your mistakes.

Most of us have traveled the same road,so let go of your guilt and embrace your mistakes to learn from!

Let me also remind you that SHE DID NOT LOVE YOU or she wouldn't have left you for someone else,period period,exclamation mark!

Post by **steveway2** » January 16, 2009, 10:35 am

Spirit,

1. Block her number on your phone
2. Block her email from your in-box
3. run away dear boy - run far far away from her

If your resume the relationship with her and get burned ...... then you deserve everything you get.

Everybody on this site has told you to exit this relationship ..... but dont listen.

No wonder she wants to maintain contact with you ...... you seem to be a master of the art of advanced stupdity.

Why dont you just sign over all your money and belongings now - why waste time with a marriage and divorce - it is a quicker way to get to your desired destination - destitution.

There are hundreds of thousands of better women in Thailand - go and find one.

Stop being a total and comlete *****.

Post by **arjay** » January 16, 2009, 10:46 am

Spirit, take heed of both the above posts.

She's probably crying because someone else upset her and is using it on you. Such girls can be masters of tactics and deceit.

I was once in a situation where I loved and adored someone, or at least I thought I did. She told me she loved me, but her actions just weren't consistent with that. Those around me kept telling me to leave it, to drop her and move on, but I just didn't want to accept that she might not be being genuine with me. She was all I could see, think and feel about. However, in the end I was forced to go, and I eventually got over her. Now years later, I sometimes look/think back, I was lucky to get out and it was not only the right result, but ultimately it was inevitable, it was just that I couldn't see it and didn't want to see it at that time!

So .... Wake up, get out, get on, move on, save your soul, and your assets. You have been told, - several times now.

Post by **Aardvark** » January 16, 2009, 10:54 am

Well if he did'nt learn from that burst of advice, he never will

Post by **747man** » January 16, 2009, 11:44 am

Spirit, How many times did you sit the exam at WBU ?? As everyone else has said....Just change your SIM CARD only 49 Baht,Change your e-mail address,AND Finally WALK AWAY !!I know you wont listen,But at least WE ALL TRIED to help YOU !!! Good Luck & be

Post by **bigwavedave** » January 16, 2009, 12:04 pm

bigwavedave wrote:Spirit

PLEASE dont be fooled again.... You are over her now stay that way..... Understand this.... The next guy that comes along with lots of money and shes off......
LOves you????? I dont think she knows what that means!!! Loves money i can agree with!!!

Spirit... If she loved /loves you she would not have gone to USA with the rich guy!!! Remember that!!!
Its my guess that the guy has caught her playing the game with another rich guy and has ditched her, and the ONLY reason she has contacted you is to pay her air fare back??? or am i just too cynical???

My friend you know the advice above that i gave you 4 months ago is good advice, don't you?? I will take your advice to us all YOU ARE STUPID!!! Now why oh why dont you take ours???? You know you have a whole lot of hurt coming your way if you let her back into your life!!! Think about what i just wrote again and again...Its true...

I understand what you are saying and that you are on an emotional roller coaster at the moment but mate. for the sake of your sanity in the future you gotta drop her!!! NOW TODAY... never speak to her again.... FINISHED..

Go find a nice girl that will be greatful for your affection all the time, and not just when there is nothing else around with more money.. We all found our princesses its not hard to find a good girl... I sure did!! You want a good girl we will find you one between us all, everybody knows a good girl that would be deserving of a kind farang gent but wer'e too cynical to try for her in case we get her a w@nker.... Just ask mate, make the decision and thats what were here for to help our fellow udonites!!!

Post by **arjay** » January 16, 2009, 3:36 pm

Well Spirit, you've certainly been given a lot of good advice, and all virtually the same. I am puzzled why you haven't heeded it, or why indeed you have again re-posed your question/re-visited the situation, unless of course you are just seeking to wind everyone up again!

Post by **beer monkey** » January 16, 2009, 4:36 pm

So maybe things have not gone to plan with the other fellow back in the US.....and she is looking for a way out, maybe she really does love you and never really wanted the other chap(it does happen), taking a call after 8 months of no contact must of brought it all flooding back, is there really anything worth salvaging...? Now think about it..think of the bad times...way it up with the good times.

He has admitted he is stupid even after all of our postings.... and after saying this back in March..

Spirit wrote:Well people, really thanks for everything. It was, finally, good to lose her. She was a real liar. I knew a lot of things more about her, and now I must to be happy because she went with him. Just tell thanks to all of you, thanks everybody.

Well there must be something about her if he is sticking around.....so come on spirit what is it, tell us..?

Also Where is she now..?

And if you do carry on ..hold on to your cash for a while, make it known you won't be sending no bundles of baht for this that and the other, see what pans out.

Post by **Genuine** » January 18, 2009, 2:05 pm

spirit..
make sure all the advice you have been giving sinks in mate

i know 2 weeks holiday is nowhere near enough time to find a princess(whos not a liar) thankfully in my case ,it only cost 5 months of my time and a few Â£ on phone calls and texts to find out they like to lie on the ''odd occasion''

..but its all a learning curve so il be even more on the ball next time!!

bigwavedave wrote:
You want a good girl we will find you one between us all, everybody knows a good girl that would be deserving of a kind farang gent but wer'e too cynical to try for her in case we get her a w@nker.... Just ask mate, make the decision and thats what were here for to help our fellow udonites!!!

get youre heads together gents il be over in april

PS shes got to be very attractive between 25-35 with no kids (hope its not to late to have my own )

Post by **izzix** » January 18, 2009, 4:41 pm

its a common story guys are getting burned every week. i see local gals on the internet dating game sending wads of letters all over the world to unsuspecting guys who they just really want to clean out and get out of the country to a better life . they are not worried what they look like , quasimodo is quite acceptable to them ,then they upgrade once they have gotten out of Thailand.

Post by **Genuine** » January 18, 2009, 5:32 pm

So i have a chance then ,even though.....

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i got sod all in the bank !!!!!

izzix ..id treat a thai women the same as i would back in the uk ,but id soon suss if it was just money they wanted.if living in the uk with me having a better life wasnt enough for her then id soon book her a flight back!!

Post by **steveway2** » January 19, 2009, 10:20 am

Spirit - where is this woman now - USA or Udon?

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