I go to my local church, Chapel, temple, Etc. and meet a girl. She is a looker by anyones standards. You go in and she actually talks to you. You go on two dates to the soda shop, with Pops as chaperone.
I decide I am going to marry that girl. I propose and two months later we are married. All is going along good 1 year later.
All the sudden me and her run into a friend from the past and male. In the conversation he ask if she still has his ring, as he had left it in THEIR apartment when he moved out. All the sudden you find out your angel is not such a perfect angel. My reaction is get out. Don't think so.
By using a topic that has been said here Slowww on the draw might have prevented this unhappyness. Learning your mate might be the best way to prevent problems.
I kind of doubt we all come completely clean on past relationships with our spouse. If you did I admire you.
Sure I told my wife what was important but did not get into details.
Details serve no purpose. 
All I am saying is if you find someone you are interested in, go slow in your relationship and see what happens. Sorry if memory is bad but someone said their wife was not even interested in them on the first meeting. It took time to grow. I am a beleiver if it is meant to be it will be. Also if the person you are after is worth it to you, you will persue it and sooner or later it will be together.
I remember GulfCoast said it took quite a few years but is now sucessful. The thing I remember is she said she remembered what he wore the first time she saw him. Guys that is an awsome statement. Wish I was that smart or observant.
To sum it up John, Go slow and one might be very happy.
Noticed not one word about a bar here. It applies anywhere!
