Is there a decent professional( office type ) lady there

Post by **kroozer** » November 8, 2011, 10:02 am

Australian guy 56 in vintage but 36 in heart seeks non gold digging professional lady with proper values to establish permanenet realtionship.
As I noticed one comment we are not all scumbags just as I hope not all thai ladies are about a quick grab of whateever funds/ assets they can get . Prefer leagl/ accounting/ banking type 28-38
bikergear@hotmail.com

Post by **Renesmee** » November 24, 2011, 2:12 pm

kroozer wrote:Australian guy 56 in vintage but 36 in heart seeks non gold digging professional lady with proper values to establish permanenet realtionship.
As I noticed one comment we are not all scumbags just as I hope not all thai ladies are about a quick grab of whateever funds/ assets they can get . Prefer leagl/ accounting/ banking type 28-38
bikergear@hotmail.com

Failed.. here's a trick eh? Cut off the Young At heart... or saying you are 56 but think or act like 36. We all know that you are acting young already... because normally 56 years old men who act their age won't be here looking for relationship... with someone between 28-38 , yeah.. that's totally show that you are a bit shallow on women same age as you... next time.. come as you are hun...

Post by **rct** » November 24, 2011, 2:43 pm

Age differences - when does it NOT matter? Is it mathematical?

What difference is acceptable (to the likes of Renesmee, who I happen to appreciate her frankness in expressing opinions)?

Suppose 56 minus 38 = 18 difference, divided by 56 is 32% off the man's age, so is under 33% acceptable, while the 56/28 ration ends up 50% off, which is not acceptable? What is the acceptable range?

When I met my wife at Central Chidlom in line waiting for noodles, I was 38 (young at heart though) and she was a mature 20, so the difference was 47.36%, would this have been acceptable or not? However we married at 45/27, so only 40%. Now I am nearly 52 and she nearly 34, so the gap is narrowing now at only 34.61%. When I am 70 she'll be 52, only 25.71% difference.

Must say I will not be happy if my lovely daughter, when she is 20, comes home with a 38 year old foreigner! That will not be acceptable!!! My son however, if he is 38 and brings home a 20 year old.....

Post by **Renesmee** » November 24, 2011, 3:23 pm

What i tried to say was... When you looking for someone.. especially for relationship and NOT a one night stand.

So when you looking for someone to be with.. you rather have them come as they are.. be honest and for sure you are not looking for rotten person but a nice one to be with. sometimes i think first impression is very important.. time to time cocky is turn off straight away so as overacting.. Why saying things like im 56 but thinking and acting like 36 when the reality is you are 56 and let me being honest.. you are old ! but old doesn't mean you are useless. You are you.. and still you as an age of 56 years old. You have seen things that the 20's and 30's haven't seen. You been to the world and still here which us the 20's will have to bound our head with respect.. so why trying to be 36 when you can be a great 56 years old.

If a good woman are out there looking for someone to be with.. they rather love you and like you as 56 and they have to face the fact that soon or later they will have to wait for the Viagra pill you took to work.. so the sex will be at least 30minutes later than right away.. Your girl will have to face the fact that you are not that strong as those western guys running around Vang-Vieng Laos or Full moon party but the fact that they will have to rub your ass one day or put you in diaper or even worst left you for another young at heart man... so why created an imagination ? tell her the fact of whoever you are... tell her that you are a 56 years old and somehow you are old and single.. you looking for someone who can be with you and not grow old with you because you looking for someone younger.. a smart woman.. who have a decent job especially... office work. Because you are sick and tired of those ho out there who trying to digging through your retirement bank account. Which is not a lot at all back then but in Thailand this money is quiet a lot. Be honest...

and maybe you will find a perfect one as we know that this dating game between western and Thai is on for ages and ages and let's say most of the reason is base on money issue.. This is not the case of Catherine Z-Ta Jones married Michael Douglas who older than her father.... this is the case of Thai woman who barely talk in Western language but does know what Louise Vuitton or Chanel are.. and they do know exactly what to do to get those purses

P.s. rct... thanks..

Post by **stattointhailand** » November 24, 2011, 3:35 pm

Great post Renesmee. =D>

Be up front and be honest and you will receive far more respect than pretending to be what you are not.

Post by **maxximus** » November 27, 2011, 2:00 pm

yes i support the post be honest on oneself.....

Post by **KHONDAHM** » November 28, 2011, 12:49 am

The OP sounds like a drive-by post to me. Anyone who's spent any time reading the forums would know this ain't the place to post a "seeking" ad...