Doc, May I quote a few of the Forum Rules which may well be applicable:-
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Whilst I personally did not delete your particular post, it certainly justified deletion.
May I point out whether one agrees or disagrees with another poster's view point, it is not acceptable to make disparaging, personal or critical remarks about them.
In this particluar case, your comments were of a personal nature, were disparaging and derogatory, were based on incorrect and incomplete knowledge/information, were no doubt the result of gossip, and it goes without saying were totally off-topic.
Whilst I may dislike and disagree with smoking, I do recognise your freedom of choice and right to smoke, and I have neither sought to interfere with that, nor to force my views on you. Nor have have I made personal or critical comments about you and certainly not on a public Forum.
Maybe you could do similarly.