I just want to tell a story,....

[cali4995]

And I used to wonder why the Thai guys knocked some them about so much, after so
many lies and constant attempts to deceive, "it's too the moon Alice!"

[jepp]

Spirit, I have been hooked before and this is typical of what happens to all of us when we can't get over someone (Thai lady or otherwise). You know all of the reasons that she is not right for you, but you can't let go. And lonliness does not help the situation, so get yourself out and about. Also I would recommend getting professional help. Plus there is a good book which is directed at ladies but is just as relevant for gents - I think that it is called 'Letting Go'. I have it but I can't find it at the moment. Another is called "How To Get Over A Breakup", and many more out there. Mainly tell her to go away and that you will not be communicating with her any more and STICK TO IT! Wipe out all records, photos, reminders etc of her out of your life, make a list ONLY of her BAD points and concentrate on that list, and do a lot of work on Self Esteem. You will slowly think of her less and less. Good Luck.

[bigwavedave]

good answer Jepp!!!

[izzix]

[quote="Genuine"]So i have a chance then ,even though.....[attachment=0]images.jpg[/attachment]i got sod all in the bank !!!!!

izzix ..id treat a thai women the same as i would back in the uk ,but id soon suss if it was just money they wanted.if living in the uk with me having a better life wasnt enough for her then id soon book her a flight back!![/quote]

by the time you suss them out you have blown a considerable amount of dosh which you have spent on numerous hoildays and mongering to your hearts content .
so you give them a better life .then you find out to your suprise they want an even better life and you are surplus to requirements and they have an upgrade in mind

[Genuine]

Maybe youre right izzix ,but surly to god theres good ones in amonst so many bad ones so to speak !?! i wouldnt know because ive not experienced any of it ..but i must admit ,going by many post on here it does seem to paint a darkside of thai women in general..unless im reading this all the wrong way ..sorry gents i dont mean to offend anyone ..on a personal note ..id give my right arm to find a ''good-un''

Maybe i should sit back and not comment on these matters until the day (and i hope it never comes)it happens to me ..but ones things for sure ..im never going to be taken to the cleaners ''moneywise''im certain of that

[jackspratt]

There are plenty of "good ones" around. But just like the newspapers, you don't read too many "good" stories on this (or other) forums.

[Henrie]

She gives you the best present in live, livelessons, do your homework now and follow the direction that has given by all the posts on your subject. If you want to be stupid, do not tell us anymore, go to back to Spain without any euro in your pocket , and start thinking overthere. If you can think, because some people never learn a thing.
Hope you can.

[Genuine]

There are plenty of "good ones" around. But just like the newspapers, you don't read too many "good" stories on this (or other) forums.

Exactly !!!

[747man]

Well I've got a GOOD ONE !!

[Spirit]

Hi guys! Thanks for your opinions. I'm really thankful. Just want to say, just wanted to tell what happened. But I can't avoid to feel sadness, just this. I've learned a lesson, that's true, and if I should try to start with her again, all the way would be full of doubts, and surely, problems. I just would like to think, if it could be possible to have a good friend on her, thinking about all what i loved her... As time goes by...
If I write all this on here, it's because I feel a little bit better sharing it, and because somebody can feel a bit less alone on this situation.
Thanks again for all of your posts...

[bigwavedave]

Spirit
we have a saying in england "you can lead a horse to water but you cant make it drink" you fit this perfect, please for your own sanity and dignity take the advice we give you.. But i totally understand its not easy and maybe you really cant let her go...You know its the best thing, we know its the best thing but its how strong you are really!! good luck!!!

[cali4995]

I've never before advocated using one of those large electric "cattle-prod" zappers on a human being
but I think we can make an exception in this case. Most of us have been drawn into some type
of relationship with a pathological liar before and it is a black hole to avoid getting sucked into. I wish
I could say I was smart enough to have avoided it, but that wouldn't be true. Really, as primitive as it sounds it probably would be for the best if you found another girl toute-suite. Any girl will do.

[aznyron]

I knew this Doctor once when a new patient made appointment to see him his first question was do you smoke if they said yes he showed them the door and told them he can not help them
well in this case is were it applies show him the door because he will not listen to us
he is looking for some place to get sympathy because some gal hurt him and took his money
my answer is welcome to the real world if you don't watch your own money some one else will and you won't have it very long as they say down in TEX/MEX adios amigo