intrenet dating.

[plien]

Hi desgner, glad to see it works out well for you.

ps just check if the girl writing her emails is her sister not one of these agents who will try and screw her for some silly fee if she gets married.[/quote]

Think this is the "Spotters Fee" you are referring to. We discussed it on a thread a couple of weeks ago. What´s your experience with the Spotters Fee? What money are we talking about? What people are in on this thing? And so on... Please share some details with us.
Plien

[Galee]

I have just turned 62 and the gal that shows most interest is 19.

Are you serious or are you a WUM.
Up to you pal. I'll try not to laugh if I see the two of you in Robinsons.

[designer]

Spotters fee , plien, Iwent on TTL and contacted about 3 or 4 girls about two and a half years ago ,I arranged to meet one girl 1 Bk no love talk just friends ,I decided before I met her i will go up to udon thani and contact a girl i had chatted two only twice just for fun ,I had not made contact for over a month but new she lived near nongbua
i booked in at the natapong hotel and tried to contact her on line from my phone sent messages no reply,i was leaving next day to get an early flight from udon but the guy that was to drive me never arrived,I sat on the veranda with my luggage pouring rain missed the plane , when a motor bike pulls up and this lovely girl gets off and comes to greet me
she was lovely, anyway stayed at the hotel for a week visit to the farm nong sang ect ,the story is she had not contacted me her aunt had got this lady in nongbua to post her photo and profile on line , my wife was working in nong khai , to please her mother she came to meet me,no english but we hit it off.after we got married and are living in south africa her mother got demands for 40000. from the lady that had posted her profile, her mother had paid this lady 3500 bht to to put her on tll when she heard that she had got married she asked for this golden hand shake
the women then contacted me and asked for the cash ,I just blocked her mail,I realy dont know what the arrangement was between her mother and that lady, my wife did not know anything about it and told her mother to tell the lady to get lost.anyway all worked out ok for me but beware if you get married you might have an extra demand for cash.
regards designer.

[designer]

Forgot to say this is the photo on tllat the time, I was lucky no demands my wife sends home bht 5000 per month from her earnings . and everybody happy

[plien]

Nice looking lady designer. Hope she will get her somtam fix 3 times daily. You know the withdrawal symtoms... moody.
Maybe she is a bit too old for our friend Paul Straker though...
Plien

[saint]

Forgot to say this is the photo on tllat the time, I was lucky no demands my wife sends home bht 5000 per month from her earnings . and everybody happy

met you both at the N M M once , pleased its working out good for you both and your wife is now happy in S A and got over her home sickness . best of luck for the future .

[PAUL STAKER]

I have just turned 62 and the gal that shows most interest is 19.

Are you serious or are you a WUM.
Up to you pal. I'll try not to laugh if I see the two of you in Robinsons.

Sorry sir I do not know what a wum is. Well you may laugh I am not too worried what others think. Yes 19 is young but at this time I am keeping an open mind. Another nice lady is 34 and maybe she will be more suitable for someone of my age. Good luck to the gentleman that shared his success story, real nice to hear it sir.

Thank you to all those that gave the positive feedback and to the ones that pour scorn and criticize I guess you guys are perfect.

Matt. 7:1 "Do not judge, or you too will be judged."

Regards,

Paul.

[747man]

Paul, I See a few having " A Go " at you,but I posted only with the intention of trying to help you,and not too dive in too fast, And No Sir, I am NOT Perfect, I ONLY THINK I am.....

[izzix]

i want to underline the fact that any good looking gal will almost certainly have a thai boyfriend ,pimp,hubby ,gik ,its unlikely they will be without a male friend . so when you come along its like manna from heaven ,and the $ signs start rolling in their eyeballs .right from their schooldays in their teens they will have a boyfriend .so you need to bear that in mind right from the start . once you have spent a few million baht those male friends will still be around .

[beer monkey]

i want to underline the fact that any good looking gal will almost certainly have a thai boyfriend ,pimp,hubby ,gik ,its unlikely they will be without a male friend

Thats my thinking too young izzy.

[Ter]

i want to underline the fact that any good looking gal will almost certainly have a thai boyfriend ,pimp,hubby ,gik ,its unlikely they will be without a male friend

Thats my thinking too young izzy.

Why is Izzy too young ? young sean.

[Ter]

My marriage is the result of the internet and has so far been a very happy time for the last four years.
Much better than the previous five years doing the usual stuff in the south of thailand.
Best thing i ever did regarding a relationship.

[saint]

paul , i only think people on here are trying to wise you up a little , rather than make judgement . there is a lot of truth in even the cynical posters comments . cast your mind back to when you were 19 ! a 40 year old seemed very old to you then . besides your dashing good looks , what do you honestly think a 19 year old would want from you , to spend the rest of her life with you ? mate , it aint going to happen !! the chances are you will be long gone before she reaches 30 . there is no problem here finding a child bride , if thats your thing , but you will pay a lot for it , financialy and emotionaly . if however you want a partner that you can spend the remainder of your life with , happily , my advice would be look a little further up the tree !!!!

[BKKSTAN]

I have just turned 62 and the gal that shows most interest is 19.

Are you serious or are you a WUM.
Up to you pal. I'll try not to laugh if I see the two of you in Robinsons.

Sorry sir I do not know what a wum is. Well you may laugh I am not too worried what others think. Yes 19 is young but at this time I am keeping an open mind. Another nice lady is 34 and maybe she will be more suitable for someone of my age. Good luck to the gentleman that shared his success story, real nice to hear it sir.

Thank you to all those that gave the positive feedback and to the ones that pour scorn and criticize I guess you guys are perfect.

Matt. 7:1 "Do not judge, or you too will be judged."

Some people have a hard time determining negative from positive comments!

Regards,

Paul.

The fact that somebody perceives that they are in a successful relationship with a ''young'' woman, a short time,doesn't make it a ''positive'',it may be so or it may be just a matter of time before the axe falls.

If you have ''longtime experienced expats'' sharing their obsevations and experiences with you,you would be wise to listen ,rather than ''knock'' their comments by labeling them as ''pouring scorn and criticism'' and making comments .''I guess you guys are perfect''!

My experience tells me that there are very very very few successful relationships between retirement age expats and 19 yr.old beauties!Unless you define a successful relationship as one where continious big money is being spent
and will continue until one or the other gets their ''fill''!If so ,there are many of those,depending on how much investment capital is in the pool!

Afterall,there are some people on the forum that might think you are wanting serious honest answers to some of these rather naive queries you are posting!All of which could probably been answered from other posts ,if you bothered to read the forum!

[Aardvark]

=D> =D> =D> =D>

[RALPHCUSENS]

Paul,

Not wishing to be contentious, but are you really seeking advice?? or are you really looking for something to justify that which you already know, for example, you in your mind think that a relationship with a 43 year age gap, stands little or no chance of success???

When you post on this forum, asking for advice, you will obviously receive various opinions, the vast majority that you have received have been honest genuine answers, which are mostly from very long-stay expats in Thailand,you would therefore be well advised to take heed of that that has been posted. in particular, that posted by Saint & BKKSTAN.

At the end of the day, only you can decide.

best of luck with whatever you decide.

[seymourbutts]

Paul
I am an expat, i have a younger wife, i am 50 and she is 32... seriously i think you really need to grow up!! you are an old man considering a relationship with a 19 year old???? Are you totally stupid?? Do you think she actually likes you, and finds you attractive?? do you think there is a single chance on this earth that she wont be doing her thai boyfriend while you are taking your heart pills??? put it this way, if you were 19 and some old granny came along with millions would you do her and make her happy??? Maybe some of us would but ONLY for the money!!! Would you then forget about all the other 19 year old girls who suddenly love you because you are now a rich man with a sugar mummy? Would you then be taking the p!ss big time out of the stupid old dear with your new found girl friends??? and the people falling over around you in the complex??? its not really rocket science i dont think!!

[beer monkey]

Maybe paul straker is going to have a little fun along the way, he mentioned fillipinos and sussing them out pretty quick so maybe he is a bit more wiser than some think, are you in it for a bit of fun too..?

[beer monkey]

My experience tells me that there are very very very few successful relationships between retirement age expats and 19 yr.old beauties!

I think everyone would agree with that.

What about 19 year old uglies...? do looks make a differance...?

[trubrit]

My experience tells me that there are very very very few successful relationships between retirement age expats and 19 yr.old beauties!

I think everyone would agree with that.

What about 19 year old uglies...? do looks make a differance...?

At 19 . They all look good to me. One of the advantages of getting old . Failing eyesight.