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by Khun Paul » July 17, 2010, 8:52 am
Ok, advice welcomed, well from what I have seen advice abounds in plenty.
I have not read all of the previous posts but I suspect the general feeling was, do not sell your Australian house, use it as a source of income for the future, which is very sound advice and one that will only appreciate in value not deteriorate hopefully.
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I noticed you wished to emabark in farming, may I respectfully suggest to chat to Nobi a farmer here as well as a restaurant owner, his advice from a foreigner perspective would be very advantageous and contary to belief Thai's are not really the best source of info regarding succesful farming, their abilities normally lie in subsistence farming, ie making enough to live on with a little extra maybe.
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Should you wish to purchase land may I also suggest that you either get a lease or another thing,( which for the life of me I cannot remember), which will ensure you will have access and control of the property until you either elect to leave or die, this will ensure your money is secure while you wish it so, it will also protect you from Thai willingness to on occasions to apply Thai logic to something, ( its mine and your out) .
Initially renting a place would be the first option as then you can see how your ( now ) close relationship will pan out, no matter what you say, once you are here it will change. You could say that now her MAN has made a commitment attitudes can and often do change , friendly warning to the newbies as it were.
Whatever you decide relating to land house etc, get a good lawyer, there are a few, DO NOT ACCEPT FAMILY PEOPLE use accredited lawyers ask anyone they will supply a list of good decent lawyers.
Whatever you decide to do the last piece of advice I am sure has been written before ,
WHATEVER YOU SPEND BE SURE THAT IF YOU LOSE IT YOU WILL : A, NOT BE DESTITUTE , B, CAN SURVIVE WITHOUT IT, C, BE ABLE TO STILL ENJOY YOUR CURRENT STANDARDS WHEREVER YOU ARE.
HOPE THIS HELPS
These are not tidings of doom and gloom. but advice we have all learnt either from experience or from others who have fallen foul of Thai ladies and their families, trust me they are experts at this.