Women: Here & There

[virginprune]

It takes 2 to tango, or not, as it were..the only way to move on when a relationship turns sour is to accept your own part in it's demise. Until then you will just go round in circles playing the blame game! If you persist with this train of thought then I fear that you will end up in a permanently lonely and bitter existence....or to put it more succinctly... GET OVER IT








NOTE TO SELF: why do I bother?

[Funman]

"or to put it more succinctly... GET OVER IT"

Which one? D, all of the above or just the last one?

[rick]

Hmm, even Thailand knows about the 21st century; if we measure women by 19th century philosopher's standards, expect trouble. All relationships are trade offs, sometimes it works, sometimes not. Some women manage money well, some not. Some men get shafted by women, some not. Some women get shafted by men (in more than just the physical sense).
I had a Thai friend who was unlucky in a number of her relationships; she was well and truely exploited by a number of men (not talking bargirl by the way). Does she hate men ? No, just sad that it never works for her. Greedy? No, prefers to earn money herself, asked for nothing. So we cannot generalise that all women just want to suck us dry.
(and she is still available)

All down to luck, luck, luck - and a bit of commonsense. Give - not necessarily just money - and there is a good chance you will get back what you deserve. If you want a 20 year old sex slave and servant, it will not last, or try a 19th century country, i think Afghanistan may fit.

As for women wanting a secure future, well, a pregnant woman or with kids has a problem in the support stakes - the man may walk, but harder for the girl.

[trubrit]

Well having read all that I've got to say I still love them. Can't really imagine waking up to see a 24 hour stubble on the face alongside me . After all none of us would be here if it wasn't for a lady, unless your mother was a man.

[udonuk1]

It takes 2 to tango, or not, as it were..the only way to move on when a relationship turns sour is to accept your own part in it's demise. Until then you will just go round in circles playing the blame game! If you persist with this train of thought then I fear that you will end up in a permanently lonely and bitter existence....or to put it more succinctly... GET OVER IT

NOTE TO SELF: why do I bother?

Did you read what i said about shaming tactics previously btw ? Are you a woman ?
Anger is a justified emotion in the face of injustice towards men, yes, and passive acceptance of evil is NO virtue.
When you experience and find out about men's position in the West, maybe you will be more sympathetic and stop the personal comments and shaming tactics.



Yes MEN do love women, me too, but in the West the state is progressively taking away mens' rights and giving more and more resources to women. Government spending on women , neglect for men, and as i said before look at the number of shops for women ! Now why has all this happened ? It is all to do with BIG GOVERNMENT allowing certain groups (feminists) to influence and dominate men, it is all just social engineering. The state grows bigger and bigger EVERY year. in the last 100 years the state has increased 120 times in size. It controls over HALF the economy of industrial countries. Feminism has changed form being for equality for women to a hate organisation trying to getting adavtanges for women and female supremacy.
When you are happily married with your lady, you do not experience this, i know. You pay for her, she is happy. But If you read about how men are treated especially in English speaking countries (expendable human doings not beings) you may change your mind .
This is my last post on this thread

[Texpat]

How much did you lose in the divorce?

[MALC]

he is lucky if he only got away with one divorce.and im not counting thai girls.

[old-timer]

Nothing wrong with a WFB in OT's opinion, just put it down to inevitable and not begrudging expenses.

OT..........

[virginprune]

Did you read what i said about shaming tactics previously btw ? Are you a woman ?

This is a first...I've never been accused of being a woman before just because I have a different opinion!

When you experience and find out about men's position in the West, maybe you will be more sympathetic and stop the personal comments and shaming tactics.

Obviously because I am an englishman with 2 relationships that ended in divorce under my belt I have no experience about this whatsoever!

I stand by my original thoughts on this...GET OVER IT!!!



This is my last post on this thread[/quote] [-o<

ANOTHER NOTE TO SELF: don't play the trolls games