Is this a scam?

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Re: Is this a scam?

Post by bryzor » January 28, 2011, 1:01 am

Hang on, am I being accused of trolling here? I am insulted and disappointed. This is a genuine situation from a genuine person. Believe what you want. I don't actually see the objective of making such a story up!? Yes, it's a mad, crazy, elaborate story, but I absolutely insist it's what's she's told me.

To all who have replied helpfully I am sincerely grateful for all of your time and advice.

I am still pulling her stories apart trying to come to my own conclusion. I am also desperately waiting for the return of my bro to see what he really thinks and how well he can corroborate her claims.

I am still seeing her and going along with it until the 'bombshell'! If that happens then I will drop her with the same disrespect that she is potentially giving me right now. But I am reserving 1% of trust on the chance that there may actually be something real here.



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Re: Is this a scam?

Post by ajsp9 » January 28, 2011, 6:23 am

you guys have obviously wised up to the most banned Thai forum poster about, petemcc, rodgerdodger, darkside, poggle etc etc....boring pete and he's spewing over on udon talk. good luck to you when he lands next week

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Re: Is this a scam?

Post by bryzor » January 28, 2011, 7:11 am

Look here, you guys think you are terribly smart thinking I'm some past troll. Well you're wrong and I feel sad that you cannot just give a guy some help. If all you want to do is rip apart posts, then that's your choice but I come here with an honest concern and situation. The board Admins are free to check my source IPs (I have posted from home and work) and they will see that my work IP is a static IP, registered to an established company for many years. So maybe you think you're witty "ooh I can spoof IPs" - personally I don't care what you can do. I am not here to cause any trouble or lie, I simply came for some genuine advice and all I get are children screaming adolescent names like "troll", please grow up or allow mature people to throw a little advice my way. Jeez.

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Re: Is this a scam?

Post by bryzor » January 28, 2011, 7:13 am

corvin1984, I apologfize that I didn't answer you originally.

I am from UK and this is where I have met her. But she will return to Thailand if she can't get full time work by next month.

Thanks

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Re: Is this a scam?

Post by bryzor » January 28, 2011, 7:16 am

Bobhelm,

Thanks for your post, but it saddens me a bit, because if she is for real, I feel enough for her that such an illness would not deter me. If she is completely true to her word then I would just be glad to know someone so beautiful and spend what time we could together.

I understand your point of view, but I really feel for this girl, hence my apprehension and trepidation.

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Re: Is this a scam?

Post by trubrit » January 28, 2011, 8:24 am

ajsp9 wrote:you guys have obviously wised up to the most banned Thai forum poster about, petemcc, rodgerdodger, darkside, poggle etc etc....boring pete and he's spewing over on UT. good luck to you when he lands next week
Well after those revelations I must confess to having a look . Quite funny really its all in a topic headed " What is Trolling" :roll: :lol: On another topic a moderator appears to be saying that "21again" is a reincarnation of Scorpio Power . :-"
We never seem to have so much fun , but then we don't say we are the friendly forum do we? :lol:
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Re: Is this a scam?

Post by pienmash » January 28, 2011, 9:45 am

ajsp9 wrote:you guys have obviously wised up to the most banned Thai forum poster about, petemcc, rodgerdodger, darkside, poggle etc etc....boring pete and he's spewing over on UT. good luck to you when he lands next week
A distinct possibility ajsp9....im smelling a rat , time will tell Tuesday when Peter Mac arrives in sunny Udon .....so im told.

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Re: Is this a scam?

Post by semperfiguy » January 28, 2011, 10:23 am

bryzor wrote: She has asked if we're still seeing each other by then, if I'd be her full-time boyfriend.

So again, she's not asking me to do anything, she's doing it herself.

She has now showed me the scars which she claims are bullet and stab wounds and her shins are mashed to crap, apparently from where she trains/kicks.
Bryzor...please don't get upset with some of the forumites because they seem to be seeing things through negative eyes. Some people look for the good in others first, and some look for the negative. It helps to give life a good balance. If all of us were looking for the good in everyone, then whose going to be there to discern the red flags and keep us from head on collisions in life? Personally I'm always the devil's advocate because I am well aware of his devious ways. My past life looks like the road of destruction going into Baghdad after the first US invasion of Irag. I was very trusting of everyone and refused any negative advice. Wish now I'd listening more carefully!

This story is beginning to sound like a scene from the recent movie The Tourist. The female spy attracted the attention of an American tourist on a train in Europe and pretended to be infatuated with him because she needed to use him as a decoy. If this Thai girl is secret police, then she needs a boyfriend to help her blend in and give her the appearance of being just a regular gal. Some people are so good at telling lies that they actually begin to believe their own stories. They spend years concocting a false story of their past, and they can sound so convincing. My ex-wife had those kinds of scars all over her body, but they were just dog bites from her childhood. The mashed shins...you should see the legs on some of these gals in Thailand. They're loaded with scrapes and bruises and insect bites from living in a harsh environment as a child.

I can understand why you want to pursue this relationship, but you owe it to yourself to try to set a trap for her to see if she's for real. If you catch her in one good lie, then chances are the rest of her stories are not true. Pick the brain tumor and find a way to disprove that. Ask to accompany her to the next doctor's visit. You seem like a smart enough guy, so pick something that really smells like a rat in a woodpile and focus in on that. Something really stinks here!

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Re: Is this a scam?

Post by discipulus » January 28, 2011, 10:54 am

So I have met this Thai Girl somewhere in the North of Thailand a couple of weeks ago. She lives with a British guy who supports her with his meager earnings as an English teacher but she says she loves this guy so she sticks to him like a tick and threatens this sad guy that if he ever does anything bad, or if he leaves her, it would be the end of his life or he could be spending the rest of his young life in the monkey house. So, with his meager earnings and her uncontrollable appetite for food,drinks etc, they're always broke. Also,she's into drug use and spends her 'allowance" to buy the stuff. Then she spoke about online boyfriends she have. Most of them Americans and British guys. She tells them all sorts of sad sad stories about her life and how she hates and likes this and that and how honest and good she is and also,how sick she is.....so, these online boyfriends send her money although as she said, " i never asked for money but they send me money"
So, yeah...
Who is real and what is real...
Hope you find another gal without these drama rama scams...

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Re: Is this a scam?

Post by grozza » January 28, 2011, 11:51 am

why would this girl want to go to another country when she has a house, a beach house and a good job that would pay pretty well for thailand to start from scratch again when she might only have 2 years to live,plus if she is sick she will recieve free medical in thailand because she works for the goverment.
this girl is geeing you up or your geeing us up,by the way what does your brother do for a job. :roll:

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Re: Is this a scam?

Post by corvin1984 » January 28, 2011, 12:37 pm

mate, she might be beautiful but snakes are too. this snake just has tits and she is dangeling them in front of you right now. empty your load and get on with your life, if she continues to be a part of your life she will only keep milking you for everything you have financially and emotionally. and if you think your brother is gonna give you any advice your seriously deluded he is already on her gravy train.

this situation is totally ****** up. and your reserving your judgement and asking for our opinion. if you dont like what we say, keep it to yourself. you asked a question and these are the answers.

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Re: Is this a scam?

Post by DermotC » January 28, 2011, 1:01 pm

ajsp9 wrote:you guys have obviously wised up to the most banned Thai forum poster about, petemcc, rodgerdodger, darkside, poggle etc etc....boring pete and he's spewing over on UT. good luck to you when he lands next week
Ajsp9, Im not denying Pete is a troll however you are the same guy who who tried to start an arguement with me over nothing on a previous post when you had never to my knowledge posted on one of my threads before. My message to you is people in glass houses shouldnt throw stones!

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Re: Is this a scam?

Post by Aardvark » January 28, 2011, 4:25 pm

Great read, and the Op will eventually write a Book about Dick head Falangs one day cause they fell for it and gave advice to one of the most Childish posts I have ever read. I don't know who you are or where you come from but if you expect the majority of people to believe this rubbish you need your Head read. Even if you were genuine, anybody over the age of 15 would have walked already :mrgreen: bye bye TROLL =D>

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Re: Is this a scam?

Post by Khun Paul » January 28, 2011, 6:34 pm

recriminations apart. the OP must think we are either
a) all completely stupid or
b) that we have sad ;lives and cannot tell the real thing from a fraud and
that the information we give is unacceptable so therefore he denounces us and paintains the story is true.

Give us a break, if he cannot see that this is a complete load of B8888888 then he will get what he deserves.

if by some miracle we are wrong then good luck, but that I doubt, sincerely folks....

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Re: Is this a scam?

Post by treehugger » January 28, 2011, 8:40 pm

bryzore, I'm reading this thread and I think that you are winding us up. No one could believe a story like that - but I love the new twist about her boss coming in from Bangkok. Keep 'em coming. :D

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Re: Is this a scam?

Post by LoongLee » January 29, 2011, 4:46 am

Wow!!!!
I haven't had so much fun since the day the hogs ate my little brother,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, =D>

Let me see if I understand this Bryzor ,,,,, This Thai national admitted to you that she was a member of a foreign government's secret police/service and her boss was coming to Great Britain and would continue to be working in some sort of "secret" capacity for a foreign government,,,,,,, Is this what you're telling us? And she wants you to be her boyfriend? OK,,,,,,,,,, Ok,,,,,,,,,, OK,,,,,,,,,, I think I've got "it",,,,,,,,,, :-k

This, along with all the other info you've given us just about sews it up. Yep,,, you're an idiot,,,, there, I've said it.
If true, there is absolutely nothing in any of your posts that would indicate ANY possible future positive relationship with this woman.,,,,,,,, Go back to your Momma's basement and start on another windup. Or, if true,,, you could help her in her "work" for a foreign service and maybe you'll get the Victoria Cross or somesuch,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, :^o

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Re: Is this a scam?

Post by nkstan » January 29, 2011, 6:01 am

Ask her to take a Lie Detector test!I bet she gets angry because you don't trust her!

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Re: Is this a scam?

Post by trubrit » January 29, 2011, 7:00 am

Come on guys, remember that beautiful Russian spy that got deported along with several diplomats. It could happen. :-"
Whats you work Bryzor ? Anything to do with national security? :lol:
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Re: Is this a scam?

Post by Khun Paul » January 29, 2011, 7:33 am

trubrit wrote:Come on guys, remember that beautiful Russian spy that got deported along with several diplomats. It could happen. :-"
Whats you work Bryzor ? Anything to do with national security? :lol:
Work, i don't think he has worked so hard before, it IS hard work thinking up plausible stories to test our intelligence, unfortunately this time he failed miserably.

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Re: Is this a scam?

Post by old-timer » January 29, 2011, 3:14 pm

bryzor wrote:Look here, you guys think you are terribly smart thinking I'm some past troll. Well you're wrong and I feel sad that you cannot just give a guy some help. If all you want to do is rip apart posts, then that's your choice but I come here with an honest concern and situation. The board Admins are free to check my source IPs (I have posted from home and work) and they will see that my work IP is a static IP, registered to an established company for many years. So maybe you think you're witty "ooh I can spoof IPs" - personally I don't care what you can do. I am not here to cause any trouble or lie, I simply came for some genuine advice and all I get are children screaming adolescent names like "troll", please grow up or allow mature people to throw a little advice my way. Jeez.
your an embarrassment

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