Udon girl tells me shes with child

Post by **arjay** » May 16, 2011, 1:13 pm

Chathima sounds spot on to me. Send/give the 3000 baht, as you leave the country, telling her that's all you have left, and you hope it will be enough. Tell her you've just lost your job in your home country, where you are now returning. Then throw your Thai SIM away, change your email address, and don't return.

Post by **Aardvark** » May 16, 2011, 2:23 pm

Chanthima13 I'm surprised at you

this young lady spent an entire month with the Op and asked for nothing !! Now all she wants is Bt6000 and people see it as a scam. At Bt1000 a day she could have asked it would seem the Op received a Bt24000 discount. That's a BARGAIN in my book. If she's a scammer, she's a bad one

Post by **nkstan** » May 16, 2011, 7:03 pm

chanthima13 wrote:she cant be pregnanted that is too soon,,and seem like a scam to me ,,who knows she might had done that before and it worked too,,i mean she may had asked for money from men that she had slept with and they believed in her story to me if i were you i will offer her 3,000 bath ,,

I hope this work out for you ,,

3K or 6k,what is the difference,C'mon you had fun,right?
She should have charged a daily rate,then you would have been happy,right?

Post by **trubrit** » May 16, 2011, 8:11 pm

nkstan wrote:
chanthima13 wrote:she cant be pregnanted that is too soon,,and seem like a scam to me ,,who knows she might had done that before and it worked too,,i mean she may had asked for money from men that she had slept with and they believed in her story to me if i were you i will offer her 3,000 bath ,,

I hope this work out for you ,,
3K or 6k,what is the difference,C'mon you had fun,right?
She should have charged a daily rate,then you would have been happy,right?

No not right . The beauty of these relationships is that : She didn't want any money from me . Interpretation. Shes not a prostitute, she really loves me .That's what makes suckers of us all , well until we wise up of course .

Post by **kennyguk** » May 16, 2011, 11:49 pm

arjay wrote:Chathima sounds spot on to me. Send/give the 3000 baht, as you leave the country, telling her that's all you have left, and you hope it will be enough. Tell her you've just lost your job in your home country, where you are now returning. Then throw your Thai SIM away, change your email address, and don't return.

I am already back in Blighty, came home on the 6th. I didn't spend the whole month in Thailand with her, 5 days at the start of my trip and then 5 days when I came back to Udon to try and help her sort out all the crap she was going through with being homeless, bikeless, potentially jobless etc.

I've told her I can Western Union the funds but I need a week or so (before I get paid UK), she seems in a rush that it needs to get sorted asap ("but im cant wait for u i dont want more for pregnant.very difficult and very expensive and may be will have problem with my body,i dont want..")

Post by **hangsaboot** » May 17, 2011, 12:31 am

yep that as well, another great fact I learnt when I got back was that one of my old workmates who was in Udon Dec/Jan spent some time with her (I knew about that bit) but I then learnt when I rang him to ask if he'd had any issues with her that they had a Gonohhrea scare together. great![/quote]

cumm of it ken ,
you mate told you he had fckd big bird in DnNITE , no pay

and you wanted the same,free bee .
shame u matey did not tell they was a clap scare in the offering .

thats what friend are for

the bottom line is , you are a sex tourist , who does not use a rubber.

when poking a prossy / cashier {normally cashier extra 1000 bht ]

probably , big black bird ?? was grateful for the attention of a white male ,
bearing in mind , the number of indian guys , frequenting the joints.

IMO , SEND HER THE CASH , AND CHECK OUT THE RASH

Post by **kennyguk** » May 17, 2011, 1:06 am

hangsaboot wrote: cumm of it ken ,
you mate told you he had fckd big bird in DnNITE , no pay
and you wanted the same,free bee .
shame u matey did not tell they was a clap scare in the offering .
thats what friend are for

the bottom line is , you are a sex tourist , who does not use a rubber.
when poking a prossy / cashier {normally cashier extra 1000 bht ]

probably , big black bird ?? was grateful for the attention of a white male ,
bearing in mind , the number of indian guys , frequenting the joints.

IMO , SEND HER THE CASH , AND CHECK OUT THE RASH

She wasn't working at D&N (or any other bar type jobs) back in January when my mate was in Udon.

Post by **old-timer** » May 17, 2011, 1:35 am

What's the point of coming all the way to LOS without staying with WFB's.
Obese birds with hairy legs looking for a hundred quid or so to get drunk are everywhere in the UK, you should have gone to Pontins Holiday park in Blackpool for your holiday - you'd have found some stunners there.

OT............. $\:D/$

Post by **KHONDAHM** » May 17, 2011, 4:20 am

Whether or not she is preggo and whether or not it is yours are two mutually exclusive issues in my book. She should have taken care of that or she should take care of that. It's part of her job and needs to be provided for out of her own earnings, IMHO. Can't begin to count the number of times I've seen this particular scam perpetrated. So unoriginal.

At least the ones in Pattaya started getting creative when I was exiting the lifestyle. They would find some motorbike accident case at the hospital, claim them as family, and spend the entire weekend parading their and their friends' Johns through the room as they each milked each sucker for "money help friend". They'd rake in at LEAST a hundred thousand in ONE weekend. Those were the days...

Post by **pienmash** » May 17, 2011, 9:02 am

As i stated earlier in this love story ........ do the honourable thing Ken

Assume a new identity , change ur phone number and email and emigrate to South America.

Btw . i saw the said young lady last night seems being preganant suits her she looked very tasty , chatted for a while but not too close im too old for more kids ,,, without wishing to be nosey i enquired - are you up the duff love ? ...... her reply how you know ??

Hope that helps Ken . (sent you a pm)

mash.

Post by **maaka** » May 17, 2011, 9:23 am

dont know what offends me more. that the OP should air this matter on the net, or his initial reluctance to pay a piddly arse sum of money, the besmirching of the woman character, or the matter to collude in an abortion..

this woman may well be carrying your child. You said you were thinking of retiring to thailand , well heres your chance lover. Man up. Be responsible for your actions.

you told us even before you left the UK, that your mate had jacked you up with a 'guide '.I bet he told you he had sex with her, so you thought you would have more of the same..cheap grumby holiday sex.. worst thing is you had sex with no condom, didnt even care about the ramifications, just blew your wad, and flew back home without so much as a second thought no doubt, and now your trying to convince yourself , or have us tell you, that it is all a scam , so it lets you off the hook..ahhhhhhhh..

no one scams for 6000bt..The girl works as a cashier, probably cant afford to get pregnant on her own, and have weeks /months /year off work , because her parents /family probably rely on her income to survive..thanks to FreezeDK now you know where the 6000bt sum may come into play..probably needs it in case she gets caught having the abortion and has to pay the 6000 bt fine...6000bt is probably not even a weeks wages for you..

I will not give you any advice, as I will not be party to an abortion, and I take offence at the way you have laid this matter in the lap of UM members. Not only have you asked of them to decide if it is a scam, but in essence asked them also whether you should pay, or not pay for an abortion...

do you know whats its like for a woman to have an abortion, how she feels knowing she is going to end the life that is inside of her, the everlasting affects it can have on her, all because you didnt wear a condom.

If I were her father I would skin you alive. I like your idea about not showing your face in Udon again..

Post by **broon97** » May 17, 2011, 10:29 am

maaka wrote:dont know what offends me more. that the OP should air this matter on the net, or his initial reluctance to pay a piddly arse sum of money, the besmirching of the woman character, or the matter to collude in an abortion..

this woman may well be carrying your child. You said you were thinking of retiring to thailand , well heres your chance lover. Man up. Be responsible for your actions.

you told us even before you left the UK, that your mate had jacked you up with a 'guide '.I bet he told you he had sex with her, so you thought you would have more of the same..cheap grumby holiday sex.. worst thing is you had sex with no condom, didnt even care about the ramifications, just blew your wad, and flew back home without so much as a second thought no doubt, and now your trying to convince yourself , or have us tell you, that it is all a scam , so it lets you off the hook..ahhhhhhhh..

no one scams for 6000bt..The girl works as a cashier, probably cant afford to get pregnant on her own, and have weeks /months /year off work , because her parents /family probably rely on her income to survive..thanks to FreezeDK now you know where the 6000bt sum may come into play..probably needs it in case she gets caught having the abortion and has to pay the 6000 bt fine...6000bt is probably not even a weeks wages for you..

I will not give you any advice, as I will not be party to an abortion, and I take offence at the way you have laid this matter in the lap of UM members. Not only have you asked of them to decide if it is a scam, but in essence asked them also whether you should pay, or not pay for an abortion...

do you know whats its like for a woman to have an abortion, how she feels knowing she is going to end the life that is inside of her, the everlasting affects it can have on her, all because you didnt wear a condom.

If I were her father I would skin you alive. I like your idea about not showing your face in Udon again..

I agree with the above, hasn't this gone on long enough? It really has become boring.

Post by **jackspratt** » May 17, 2011, 10:39 am

I don't agree with the above, but you are probably right about having run its course.

Post by **cute girl 555+** » May 17, 2011, 2:25 pm

Is this thread called 'Farangs' gossip'? LOL...

Post by **rickfarang** » May 17, 2011, 3:50 pm

I'm with Billg. Pay the small fee and move on. Life is too short.

Post by **bumper** » May 17, 2011, 4:21 pm

I did assist her financially all the time I spent with her day to day, never any massive sweeping amounts but just food, drink petrol for the moped and misc. expenses such as when she randomly pulled up at the beauty parlour and sat getting her hair and make up done for an hour, cost 100b.

Last of the big spenders :-"

Post by **pompui** » May 19, 2011, 9:10 am

Saw the lass last night in D&N,she was the most attractive one there in the bar,did not seem to have the whole world on her shoulders,laughing and joking.Luckily the bar is so far inside the cowshed that Kenny can come back and enjoy a few shandies in the bars at the front.

Post by **BobHelm** » May 20, 2011, 8:59 am

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