Laos girls ?

Post by **viking Denmark** » January 3, 2016, 12:45 am

Hello
Is it worse to look for a lao girl - I heard they are a bit better or what to call it more reliable than thais ?
are they easy to get in contacts as thais or what ?
any infos welcomed
regards
Viking

Post by **wazza** » January 3, 2016, 11:19 pm

why don't you contact Laosean the UM member, same questions as you.

Post by **thrilled** » January 4, 2016, 4:09 am

Many of the Thais that you see in Udorn if their not near
100% Lao,many are 50%.

Post by **mally** » January 4, 2016, 5:50 am

My experience - (only mine, others may well differ) - if they're already in Thailand, and have been here some time, then they have "learned the ropes" and are very similar to Thai girls,they know the scams and how to play you. In Laos, I found the girls in VC are not far behind the Thais, outside of the central area they were better. I've not been into the countryside so no experience there, but I suspect it will be the same as LOS......I've found that in real rural area's they are not as "world wise" and you are on more of a level playing field. However, as always, there are good and bad where ever you are, so keep your brains out of your pants !

Post by **papafarang** » January 4, 2016, 6:40 am

it's all quite easy really, looking for a lady ? avoid the pitfulls by not finding..
the prettiest one you can
one that's 40 years younger than you
drinks heavily
smokes 40 a day
speaks English, Danish, french fluently
is fascinated by gold
takes you 12 minuets to get her into bed
likes to go out to girlie bars every night
can beat you at pool.
look for......
would like to go to the cinema
plain jane
loves going out to all you can eat BBq @129baht
hates going to bars
don't care you drink but worries after your on your 3rd leo
her idea of shopping is seeing a bargain dress in Tesco for 199 baht
smiles her head off when you take her to swensens
and suffers from OCD with a mop
and as mally says " keep your brains out your pants"

Post by **mickojak** » January 4, 2016, 7:42 am

Papa, you are spot on.
Also a few more things to look for.
Someone who has a real job and can prove it by sending pictures of he work enviroment, coleauges etc.
Work name, address phone numbers etc, that you can check on google.
When you visit her, go to her work place.
Also, hopefully still quite attached to parents, family etc.

Ask her lots of questions early on and re-ask them in different ways as time goes on to test her honesty.
Not many people can remember lies over time.

I married a girl of 32 years.
Educated
Works in hospital
Doesn't drink
Doesn't smoke
Doesn't swear
No tattoos
No piercings
Never married
No children
Lives with mum and auntie
Wonderful attitude
Always happy, (especially with me, no matter what I do)
Considers herself un-attractive
Because she is over 30, thinks she is on the scrapheap because in Thailand that is the case.
Thought she would never get married and have kids.
Is totally unworldly.
Knows nothing outside her village/Thai life (is wonderful, but sometime a little frustrating)

Now is married with one 1yo daughter and over the moon, (Her mum is too, which is very important)

Her hospital has many other chicks just like her, dying to meet someone nice, (some stunners too!).

My advice,
Forget the bars, full stop.
Get on a dating site.
Look for a girl in the country, with a job and go from there.
Don't get c#*t struck, use you head.
Take your time.
The right one is worth waiting for and there are thousands of them out there.
Don't expect them to fall on your lap.
Everything good takes time and work
Mick

Post by **12345** » January 4, 2016, 12:03 pm

If you have to ask on a public forum, at your age, how to date women, I think it's safe to say, 'you've lost already'.

Post by **waanjai** » January 4, 2016, 10:07 pm

There have been a few changes though

Post by **arjay** » January 5, 2016, 9:36 pm

papafarang wrote:it's all quite easy really, looking for a lady ? avoid the pitfulls by not finding..
the prettiest one you can
one that's 40 years younger than you
drinks heavily
smokes 40 a day
speaks English, Danish, french fluently
is fascinated by gold
takes you 12 minuets to get her into bed
likes to go out to girlie bars every night
can beat you at pool.
look for......
would like to go to the cinema
plain jane
loves going out to all you can eat BBq @129baht
hates going to bars
don't care you drink but worries after your on your 3rd leo
her idea of shopping is seeing a bargain dress in Tesco for 199 baht
smiles her head off when you take her to swensens
and suffers from OCD with a mop
and as mally says " keep your brains out your pants"

Agreed.

I would add: Speaks Laos, not English!

If they are a genuine village girl, they are unlikely to speak English, French, or any western language, and are likely to expect a long period of courtship, followed by marriage or engagement, before cohabiting or sleeping with you.

Post by **bumper** » January 7, 2016, 10:32 am

Or lots of money for the family. The truth is they are no different then any other women, some are good some are bad, the same in Thailand. Might as well settle in Family will always come before you. If they don't know the tricks once they are with you won't take long for them to learn. I would say unless your perfect yourself ( I'm not) then don't waist your time looking for a perfect woman.

Better to look for some one you can share with and enjoy whatever time you have left.

Post by **stereolab** » January 7, 2016, 1:29 pm

waanjai wrote:There have been a few changes though

Some areas in our village look very similar to this, and I regularly see older ladies, sans bra, late afternoon, not a pretty sight.