Where are all the good girls

Post by **equaliser** » September 18, 2007, 2:56 pm

I would like to know of some good places to go to meet Thai women.(not bar girls)Just good honest girls who are genuine and want to settle with a falang.

Post by **BKKSTAN** » September 18, 2007, 3:08 pm

IMO,Learn to speak Thai fluently,then you will have thousands of opportunties everywhere you go in Thailand!They are all around you!You just need to learn how to communicate with them!

Post by **beer monkey** » September 18, 2007, 3:16 pm

Same place you may have looked in your home country.
But you will find some in bars that are honest and genuine and will want to settle with a farang, you just have to do a bit of ground work thats all and maybe keep your wits about you and your head screwed on .
as stan says they really are all around you, simple as that.

Post by **Aardvark** » September 18, 2007, 3:54 pm

Try meeting someone with a Thai wife already and get him to introduce you to some body his family knows. I have done this twice before and withn a 100% success rate so far. Neither of these girls spoke English or had anything to do with Falangs before, but after 2 years they are still together and HAPPILY there will be a new baby born in February. Or you can take your chances at a Bar

up to you really

Post by **AussieBoy** » September 18, 2007, 4:22 pm

Hire a scooter, go out to some of the smaller vilages, ride around village look for shop, stop have a drink, I am looking for girl, some one will under stand, sure enough they will point you in direction, soon most the village will know you are looking, go back next day, the mumma will be waiting for you to return,

happened many times to me, half way to Hong Han on the left about 20 k from udon, stop for drink and some people in shop started to chat to me, said I was looking for girl, come back tomorrow they said, sure enough the mumma brought the photos or the girls them selves, photo below of them waiting to see me the mext day, once I arrived the whole village come out to see farang, plenty girls to choose from

Post by **pompui** » September 18, 2007, 4:51 pm

Aussieboy,hope no money exchanged hands and you just tried to strike up a conversation.Asking am looking for a girl sounds a bit sinister.No wonder the parents were quick to offer you plenty of girls to choose from

Post by **treehugger** » September 18, 2007, 5:21 pm

I agree 100% with Aaardvark, and have done the same.

If you PM me I will send a couple of photos of nice ladies looking for husbands. However, I will expect you to send a picture of yourself and some deatils of your age, past history, marital status, educational status, financial status etc.

In fact, all the things that you want to know about the girl!!

Post by **beer monkey** » September 18, 2007, 5:49 pm

whats the betting eqauliser don't..

Post by **equaliser** » September 18, 2007, 7:07 pm

Bm is so smart on everything.

Post by **beer monkey** » September 18, 2007, 7:22 pm

equaliser wrote:Bm is so smart on everything.

why thanks equaliser, but its not always the case....
i can be a right 'Dumb-arse' at time's too.

good luck with the girl search.

Post by **Bump** » September 18, 2007, 9:01 pm

Yep they are all around you, the cashier at the resturant, the clerk at Robinsons, the local school teacher. But the language is the major problem, not all will speak english. It makes it very difficult many time when I was single I hired a tranlator. To get things started.

In the end a guy I knew found my wife for me, she didn't speak english and I didn't speak Thai. any many times we had to rely on a translator but eventually we communicated.

It is not an easy road to travel but most things that are good require a little effort.

Post by **izzix** » September 18, 2007, 11:58 pm

if you speak some thai it has a magical effect on them .
it really does have them drooling at your feet !
:lol: :roll: [-X

Post by TJ » September 19, 2007, 8:24 am

Yes. I see many good looking Udon Thani ladies that interest me as a girlfriend and potential wife. But it is a challenge to strike up a conversation with strangers who aren't likely to know much English. The Thai lady that would interest me is not likely to be thinking about finding an old falang to support her. Nor would she be found in hotels and bars.

Thai teachers and nurses are the ones that I would like to meet. Eating lunch at the food venders that have them for customers might be one way of making their acquaintences. Maybe do a stint teaching English - have degree, will teach.

Actually there is I have one in mind, a Thai doctor specializing in skin care. She's cute, probably in her mid-thirties, speaks good English, and her office is a few hundred yards from my favorite hotel. I had a skin problem and she treated me. She asked the usual question, "Was I married?" Likely she wanted to point me to an aunt or friend looking for a husband. I'm beginning to sense a need for more skin care very soon. She is a peach!

Post by **Saboo** » September 19, 2007, 8:41 am

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Actually there is I have one in mind, a Thai doctor specializing in skin care. She's cute, probably in her mid-thirties, speaks good English, and her office is a few hundred yards from my favorite hotel. I had a skin problem and she treated me. She asked the usual question, "Was I married?" Likely she wanted to point me to an aunt or friend looking for a husband. I'm beginning to sense a need for more skin care very soon. She is a peach![/quote]

More likely she was asking because you may have passed your skin problem on to your wife....??? it wasent a std by any chance..??

Post by TJ » September 19, 2007, 8:51 am

Saboo wrote: More likely she was asking because you may have passed your skin problem on to your wife....??? it wasent a std by any chance..??

The problem was created by very, very small bugs or mites that caused a rash on my face. Believe she refer to them as deca. Not an std.

Post by **wokkawombat** » September 19, 2007, 9:37 am

Saboo, do you have some sort of fixation with STD,s. I have to rely on my memory as you are hidden on the forum and I cannot search your previous posts, but it seems a fair proportion of your posts mention STD's. Talking from experience??????.

John

Post by **pompui** » September 19, 2007, 9:50 am

John,just click on his profile and then click on view all posts.

I generally take his posts with a pinch of salt.

Post by **Bump** » September 19, 2007, 10:07 am

Well this sounds hookey, but go do the things yuo like to do, then if a lady is interested in the same thing you got a place to start and something in common.

More then liley if you end up in a Thai marriage it will probably start more like a business relationship and if you lucky develop into a real marriage.

Thai women are programmed to think many thing about being with a farrang, just as we are about them. In most instances the reality is much different then the dream.

The challenge isn't in meetign them the challege is developing a realtionship that is a blend of Thai and Western culture, that you both can enjoy.

Are the chances better for that in meetign a University professor, probably but no guarentee. In the at seven years of contact here I have sen marriages that we re fantastic realtiionhips , that involved former bar girl. I have seen reationships involving profesional women that turned into total nightmares.

My suggestion is don't get in a hurry here no more then you would in your home country. I think most of us who marry have a drive to have a home and someone very special in lives.

But, there are much worse places in the world to be single then Thailand.

Learn from the example of Thai men, they may date a woman for years before they actually marry, in the meantime they don't do without. They are just descrete about it .

again go do the thing you want to do and let things flow. It's not like there is a hortage of women here. Remember in the end they are going to be wives, not girlfriends. This cute littel things you see now, may drive you nuts when you have to deal with it day in and day out.

One of the things I have noticed in this time in that Thai women are expert in finding that farang, but unless they are willing to adapt just like you are going to have to do. They are not real good at keeping them.

Just walk softly and enjoy what Thailand has to offer.

Post by **Aardvark** » September 19, 2007, 12:39 pm

Did you have a little drinky Ray

Post by **Irish Alan** » September 19, 2007, 12:43 pm

ray23 wrote:Yep they are all around you, the cashier at the resturant, the clerk at Robinsons, the local school teacher. But the language is the major problem, not all will speak english. It makes it very difficult many time when I was single I hired a tranlator. To get things started.

In the end a guy I knew found my wife for me, she didn't speak english and I didn't speak Thai. any many times we had to rely on a translator but eventually we communicated. It is not an easy road to travel but most things that are good require a little effort.

Agreed about the language. There are so many really lovely women that may not have had the opportunity to go to university or possibly shy at using the English that they do know. Learn the language and I don't mean a phrase book from Asia Books, I mean go to school or have private lessons and put in a few hours per day to study. Trust me it will be worth the effort.