Question for the Isaan village dwellers

Long distance relationships, mixed relationships etc...
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Post by Maligator » December 24, 2007, 11:50 am

Lynx my bruther...
Sounds like you know what you're going to do.
Give someone you trust totally with a schedule and where yu'll ( like that.."yu'll" almost sounds like "y'all". It's "Texan", learned it when I lived in El Paso. ;) be at all times and of course some communications w/ GPS perfered.
Play it by ear..smell the smells, always watch the hands and if your hair perks up in the slightest... get the ---- out most ricki tik!

Nothing worth yer life...not even as Ronnie calls it.. eh..what was it now, "the channel" 'tween thier legs " or sumptin like that. :lol:

Plenty 'o time to plan.
Best 'o luck.



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Post by gulfman » December 24, 2007, 7:02 pm

You quote" The very act of my sudden appearance will be the ........" What if she doesn't happen to be there? :shock: Lose a lot of 'face' if you have to ask the neighbours :oops:

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Post by aznyron » December 24, 2007, 8:45 pm

LYN this is what i said in many post if you can not wear it
does not fit in your suit case you do not own it
I also said do not give them more than you can afford to lose because you will lose it I know some times it a hard pill to swallow but read all the post they all are telling you to walk away and so am I the stress in your life is not worth any material things trust me on that I have never seen armored truck at the cemetary and never will. I was living with a thai lady before I married my wife she ask me if I could help her with the house mortgage I said yes and I ask her how much she owed and she said 240.000 baht so after a few months I gave her the money to pay off the house she was a lier and a fraud ripped me off big time and I wanted to marry her you know what I did I walk away just thought about all the good times we had together and moved on I will not stress my self over money or any thing else **** it not worth the trouble so Lyn just keep your eyes open and enjoy your life there are many honest good ladies here in thailand you just have to look for them and if you go to bars to look it a crap shoot you might find a good one but the chances are against you

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Post by glalt » December 25, 2007, 2:48 pm

If, and a BIG if she still has it, your chances of getting it back on your own are between slim and none. With the forum member's help you should be able to find a tough lawyer who will help you track this item down. I also think you had better be prepared to buy it back from a third party.

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Post by spaul » December 27, 2007, 2:57 am

it's not yours, you gave it away, and you can't prove it is yours - whatever you say.
how can you posssibly explain, in any court of law, that she could borrow this thing only until you decide you want it back??
if she gives it back it's out of the kindness of her heart.

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Post by Alagrl » December 27, 2007, 4:28 am

Ricohoc wrote:LA, I could have gone FOREVER and not seen that pic of Santa.
As could I.

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Post by lynxlynx » December 27, 2007, 7:29 am

spaul wrote:it's not yours, you gave it away, and you can't prove it is yours - whatever you say.
how can you posssibly explain, in any court of law, that she could borrow this thing only until you decide you want it back??
if she gives it back it's out of the kindness of her heart.
You are dead wrong here. I can make a successful claim in every court of law. I have heaps of evidence and testimonies available to me to prove that there were explicit conditions attached. And on top of that, hear this - one of my diplomas says that I am MA in IB Law. If you want to extend your argument, be my guest, but please do some homework prior to stating it here.

Requisites of a valid gift

A valid gift must:
1. be given freely and voluntarily,
2. be given to a specific person,
3. be absolute and unconditional except when made for a specific purpose,
4. be for an existing property,
5. not be given for a consideration and
6. be accepted by the donee.

Conditional gift

A gift that will not take effect unless a condition imposed by the donor is fulfilled by the donee is called a conditional gift. The condition may be precedent or subsequent.If it is condition precedent, the gift will not take effect unless the condition is fulfilled. If it is a condition subsequent, the gift will fail and property will revest in the donor if the condition is not fulfilled.

Voidable gift

When the gift has been obtained by force, fraud and false representation or by imposing conditions detrimental to the interests of the party, the gift can be revoked at the option of the donor. Such a gift is known as a voidable gift.

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Post by banpaeng » December 27, 2007, 8:40 am

Now we know you as a lawyer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I just wonder how much that will be worth in Thailand. :lol:

Oh well another lesson at WBU. :lol:

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Post by Pakawala » December 27, 2007, 9:06 am

Lynx, I'm not sure where you got your list of "Requisites of a valid gift" but they seem contradictory to me...

3. be absolute and unconditional except when made for a specific purpose,

and

5. not be given for a consideration

The terms 'made for a specific purpose' and 'not be given for a consideration', seem to be in conflict. The first favors your case and the second is against your case. Now, I don't have "an MA in IB Law" but, IMO if you don't reacquire the 'stone' through friendly persuasion, you'd better just walk away. There's no way you'll ever win it back in a Thai Court. 8)

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Post by lynxlynx » December 27, 2007, 9:17 am

banpaeng wrote:Now we know you as a lawyer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I just wonder how much that will be worth in Thailand. :lol:

Oh well another lesson at WBU. :lol:
What's your point? First of all, I am not a lawyer by profession. That would be the hedge fund industry. Second, I clearly stated in one of my previous submissions on the subject that I am fully aware of the zero effect of any kind of legal action taken against her outside of Thailand in regard to any remedy within Thailand.

But at the same time, a successful legal claim within the jurisdiction of my farangland which belongs to the Schengen zone would jeopardize her qualification for a Schengen visa (unless a settlement was reached) - which is something that would ruin her "Scandivian dreams".

So again, what's your point besides your usual "anti-Lynx" rambling?

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Post by lynxlynx » December 27, 2007, 9:35 am

Pakawala wrote:Lynx, I'm not sure where you got your list of "Requisites of a valid gift" but they seem contradictory to me...

3. be absolute and unconditional except when made for a specific purpose,

and

5. not be given for a consideration
Pakawala,

I am seriously considering intermediation as one of the options and some of the submissions/advices/suggestions posted in this thread shifted my option weighting in this direction.

The legal definition was just my reply to that submission which was trying to convince me that I have no moral or legal claim on the stone. Which is completely wrong.

... if you give something for a consideration, it can no longer be considered as a gift. A gift cannot include any exchange of value

"specific purpose" constitutes a condition, therefore such a gift cannot be considered as a valid gift

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Post by lynxlynx » December 27, 2007, 9:43 am

[quote="lynxlynx] "Scandivian dreams".[/quote]

should have been "Scandinavian dreams"

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Post by banpaeng » December 27, 2007, 9:52 am

My point is the same as yours!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nothing.

Not anti you for sure. You are allowed to post your topics of controsversy and claim your revenge on a young lady. That is your right. Just goes to prove:

Nothing.

It is just you have stated you do not like Thailand except for a two week paid play. Your whole point is to try to drum up support for your revenge on a Thai lady (good luck). I really do not care but to go to that much effort, you must carry a heavy load of hate. As stated before, hate will kill.

Good luck.

Another round for WBU.

Later.

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Post by lynxlynx » December 27, 2007, 10:47 am

banpaeng wrote:My point is the same as yours!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nothing.

Not anti you for sure. You are allowed to post your topics of controsversy and claim your revenge on a young lady. That is your right. Just goes to prove:

Nothing.

It is just you have stated you do not like Thailand except for a two week paid play. Your whole point is to try to drum up support for your revenge on a Thai lady (good luck). I really do not care but to go to that much effort, you must carry a heavy load of hate. As stated before, hate will kill.

Good luck.

Another round for WBU.

Later.
Again, the same propaganda of yours. I'd really appreciate it, if you stopped making up things I said. I never ever paid for sex in Thailand nor anywhere else. I know this is hard for you to understand or accept, but there are quite a number of people who don't have to pay for sex and yet can have it frequently. One day I will certainly get to that age when this will no longer be my case, but this day is a long way from today.

My revenge??? So, trying to get back something that rightfully belongs to me is in your righteous brain considered as revenge? What support drumming up? I asked about what effect would have my sudden appearance in the village and no reasons for the visit were stated. They were added later on upon requests for clarification.

Yes, hate can kill. So, watch out, because you seem to be popping out. #-o

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Post by Aardvark » December 27, 2007, 11:58 am

Lynx, it would seem you have finally decided on your course of action so it's useless anyone trying to convince you otherwise. It would be interesting if you could keep us informed on your result. Good Luck.

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Post by spaul » December 27, 2007, 12:06 pm

wow - nasty
never went to university, but nevertheless, i know that you have no influence over the authorities for any country regarding visas, over some sort of gift that you freely handed over.
first - you gotta find out where and when she applies for a visa.
next - how are sure she wants a scandinavian guy - if she's a bit of free talent, well, she can take her pick.
further more - go ahead to the village, and let us all know the outcome!

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Post by aznyron » December 27, 2007, 12:11 pm

Lynx ask the lady for it back what ever it might be if she refuses then contact a thai lawyer and see how far you get. she might get scared and return the item to you or she might decide to fight you and if she does we all would like to know the out come good luck in your pursuit
as for my unasked for opinion I would forget about it in Brooklyn N.Y our famouse words are (forget about it) marsalam

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Post by bamakmak » December 27, 2007, 1:11 pm

Bangsean_girl, what does "ka" stand for?
Lynx, throughout this thread, you seem to have a very unrealistic expectation that you can just show up at a Thai village and your "ex-TG" will hand over to you a valuable ring. Your belief made me think that perhaps you had never really been to Thailand.

Now you ask a Thai girl (in a different thread) what "ka" stands for. With that question, there is absolutely no doubt in my mind that you have never been to Thailand and that you have never had a Thai girlfriend here.

I must confess that I do enjoy your posts and hope you will continue. I like good fiction.

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Post by aznyron » December 27, 2007, 1:21 pm

banamak I must confess I am living in Thailand for three years this coming january
and I do not know the meaning of KA but I am still wet behind the ears when it comes to things like that LOL.

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Post by Gozzo » December 27, 2007, 3:49 pm

Ka is said at the end of a sentence when said by a female.

Kup is said at the end of a sentence when said by a male.
Such is life.

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