Spirt.... Good God man where is your back bone...??? You are one "Sad Sad Sad" puppy dog.... I feel real sick man reading all that drivel your spouting...
Saboo
I just want to tell a story,....
Yes, I think that's the reason she left you. You sound like a naieve wussy. Get yourself together and act like a man, then the girls will come running to you in stead of running away from you.Spirit wrote:If I feel pain it's because I trusted her, because I forgave her a lot of wrong things, because I believed almost everything, because I gave her all of me without conditions
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I don't think egotist like to step back 
Spirit, I actually think you're lucky you got rid of her. Undoubtably she already is making the other guy miserable or will soon be with ever
increasing demands for money. Let it be his problem now.
In the beginning the internet may have been a great way to meet unattached regular girls but I think it has evolved much into a way where ill-intentioned females can squeeze money out of well-meaning guys.
How can you believe anything she says? Maybe she's still married to the Thai man? How many other guys is she stringing along? When they start playing this "who is the highest bidder game" kick them to the curb.
Find some solace in knowing that with this mindset, any relationship she
enters into will self-destruct. Unfortunately, there will be some more broken farangs on the way. You don't need her bullsh_t man, move-on. =D>
increasing demands for money. Let it be his problem now.
In the beginning the internet may have been a great way to meet unattached regular girls but I think it has evolved much into a way where ill-intentioned females can squeeze money out of well-meaning guys.
How can you believe anything she says? Maybe she's still married to the Thai man? How many other guys is she stringing along? When they start playing this "who is the highest bidder game" kick them to the curb.
Find some solace in knowing that with this mindset, any relationship she
enters into will self-destruct. Unfortunately, there will be some more broken farangs on the way. You don't need her bullsh_t man, move-on. =D>
I didn't want problems.
I'm fortunately, a good positioned man, good looking, and, it's not good to say by my own, succesfull with women. And more than this, I'm young enough. It's was just a true love story by my side, I fell in love, is this because I'm stupid. I just wanted to share my experience, maybe it will make good to another farangs, maybe will make to think somebody.... If this happens, it's ok...
She went with him, yes, I understand now, that he is richer than me, really older than me, but maybe easier to tell him lies... Maybe I'm wrong, surely....
I was not too generous, YES!!!...and I'm happy now about it...
I didn't give money for nothing...
Only when she was ready, when she told me that she wanted to live with me...
I know that a lot of farangs "buy" asian women, young, pleasants...
That's not my way....
I just wanted to share it, because it made me pain, it hurts me....
And when I say maybe I can't go to Udon, it's only because I know that I'll remember a lot of things there, and it will be hard for me sometimes...
But, of course, I'll keep on going to Thailand, because I love that country...
Just this guys, I'll keep going on with my life... always forward...
I wish you all the best, the best of lives, and see you soon there, in my second country, Thailand...
I'm fortunately, a good positioned man, good looking, and, it's not good to say by my own, succesfull with women. And more than this, I'm young enough. It's was just a true love story by my side, I fell in love, is this because I'm stupid. I just wanted to share my experience, maybe it will make good to another farangs, maybe will make to think somebody.... If this happens, it's ok...
She went with him, yes, I understand now, that he is richer than me, really older than me, but maybe easier to tell him lies... Maybe I'm wrong, surely....
I was not too generous, YES!!!...and I'm happy now about it...
I didn't give money for nothing...
Only when she was ready, when she told me that she wanted to live with me...
I know that a lot of farangs "buy" asian women, young, pleasants...
That's not my way....
I just wanted to share it, because it made me pain, it hurts me....
And when I say maybe I can't go to Udon, it's only because I know that I'll remember a lot of things there, and it will be hard for me sometimes...
But, of course, I'll keep on going to Thailand, because I love that country...
Just this guys, I'll keep going on with my life... always forward...
I wish you all the best, the best of lives, and see you soon there, in my second country, Thailand...
Spirit,
you wrote that even after you had evidence that she also had a relationship with her ex-husband, and additionally had an American boyfriend, you accepted that, and continued your relationship with her.
And when she was extremely jealous towards you (while having at least 2 lovers herself), you also accepted that.
And you believed everything she said.
What was wrong with you?
Falling in love is not stupid, but this is.
And now you blame her for walking away from you?
If you give her all the power over you, and you act like a sissy, than you give her the opportunity to do as she likes, whenever she likes.
The problem isn't that she doesn't respect you, but that you don't respect yourself.
Being a man has nothing to do with "a big ego", but with respecting yourself.
It's good to fall in love, but don't let your gilrfriend treat you as a doormat. If you don't respect yourself, she won't either.
you wrote that even after you had evidence that she also had a relationship with her ex-husband, and additionally had an American boyfriend, you accepted that, and continued your relationship with her.
And when she was extremely jealous towards you (while having at least 2 lovers herself), you also accepted that.
And you believed everything she said.
What was wrong with you?
Falling in love is not stupid, but this is.
And now you blame her for walking away from you?
If you give her all the power over you, and you act like a sissy, than you give her the opportunity to do as she likes, whenever she likes.
The problem isn't that she doesn't respect you, but that you don't respect yourself.
Being a man has nothing to do with "a big ego", but with respecting yourself.
It's good to fall in love, but don't let your gilrfriend treat you as a doormat. If you don't respect yourself, she won't either.
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saboo that was very heavy you never know what on some one mind when they get rejected
in love some people can handle better than others let assume he did some thing like that could you look your self in the mirror I know I couldn't like papa Guido said if you have some thing good & constructive to offer then say it other wise keep your mouth shut
in love some people can handle better than others let assume he did some thing like that could you look your self in the mirror I know I couldn't like papa Guido said if you have some thing good & constructive to offer then say it other wise keep your mouth shut
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I would even go as far as saying that the Mods should suspend his membership on Udonmap for a period of 1 month.
It is harressment in many countries of the world and certainly doesnt come under the general rules and guidelines of this Forum.
99% of the members comments on this forum are constructive, helpful, informative and also funny and im sure all of us have benefited from the advice and experience of others members.
Its a diverse group of people who live worldwide and we all have opinions, and individual thoughts.
Spirit , Ignore those comments, just like most of us will ignore Saboo.
It is harressment in many countries of the world and certainly doesnt come under the general rules and guidelines of this Forum.
99% of the members comments on this forum are constructive, helpful, informative and also funny and im sure all of us have benefited from the advice and experience of others members.
Its a diverse group of people who live worldwide and we all have opinions, and individual thoughts.
Spirit , Ignore those comments, just like most of us will ignore Saboo.
It;s obvious young Saboo has;nt reached that level of maturity yet 