A dilemma - of sorts!
I think someone said eairler they smelled a troll. I am not sure but I do not believe all I read here either. This story gets a bit stranger by the updaates. I was in Udon for 2 years and very seldom ran into somone I knew let alone someone I might not like to see. Second Mr. Zoom this is your second time around for trying to post on a couple of establishments of your disapproval. Last time you were also the victim. You said you are non violent, horsefeathers, as I know you have tried to get a couple of members to meet you only because they disagree with your point of view (which is the only one correct) when you wanted to fight. I know as you even ask me. What a waste!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If this happened to you, it might not be good but I do like how you are always the victim.
There are a few disagreeable types whom I thought should leave Thailand but what I learned is that the Thai's have a very distinct way of handleing trouble makers, though maybe not as quick or visual as one might like, it seems to work.
BobHelm gave the best advice, Let it lay.
No more post to this for me, as a bit in ones own mind i do believe.
If this happened to you, it might not be good but I do like how you are always the victim.
There are a few disagreeable types whom I thought should leave Thailand but what I learned is that the Thai's have a very distinct way of handleing trouble makers, though maybe not as quick or visual as one might like, it seems to work.
BobHelm gave the best advice, Let it lay.
No more post to this for me, as a bit in ones own mind i do believe.
Re: A dilemma - of sorts!
I agree Irish Alan, girls of all types can be propositioned anytime and anyplace. I've lived here long enough to see it happen. Like you, IA, I also lived in Pattaya/Jomtien. I spent a fair amount of time in the go-go's & bars. So I'm no stranger as to what goes on in these establishments and the behavior exhibited by both bar staff and customers. When in Rome...Irish Alan wrote:In my experience it is irrelevant where you take your lady. There are so many perverts in this town they will strike anywhere.jingjai wrote:What I don't quite understand is why some of you guys would take your "respectable Thai lady" to a farang bar.
1. When I lived in Pattaya I was on a songtau. A pretty girl sat across from me dressed in smart trousers, white blouse and sported an ID card like she worked in a bank/office. 2 ar5eholes got on and one proceeded to proposition her. She held up her hand showing a wedding ring and said she had a husband. He thought no meant yes until the poor girl rang the bell and got off no doubt before she reached her destination.
Here girls will be propositioned no matter where they work... banks, post offices, restaurants and offices. Fahlang with money thinks EVERY girl in this kingdom is available and the word NO means you just need to try harder.
Perhaps my comment was to subtle for some people. I know subtlety doesn't always come across on this forum.
I think it is disrespectful to drag your "respectable Thai lady" to a farang style bar.
I talking about bars, where the bar staff is hustling drinks, hustling to get bar-fined, groping customers and customers groping back. IMO, I think if you could look into the minds and hearts of your "respectable Thai lady" they really don't want to go to these kinds of establishments. I think they go along, because that is what a dutiful t/w/ t/gf will do. But, I don't think they have that great a time there, IMO.
But, I also said in my post "up to you" where you decide to take your girl for a night out.
I'm NOT talking about establishments such as The Irish Clock. I'm fairly certain the OP's girlfriend was not "groped" in a place like the Clock.
Precisely. Girlie bars are simply another type of sex for sale establishment.BKKSTAN wrote:I agree with you Jingjai!If one understands the environment,they should be able to make a decision about how their Thai wife or GF will feel or deal with the situation,if they really care!
Can't think of any reason why you would want to take a Lady in there?There are plenty of nicer places to take her for a drink.
I can, honestly, say that I've never heard him use those words before.Irish Alan wrote:Anyway… I am 99% sure I know this guy you speak of and he is all wind and piss. Bear in mind he has a lot to lose. He has told you about his big house and he no doubt demonstrated his lovely vehicle. Does the words, “You need a slap!” ring any bells? In my days of singledom I was leaving a bar (he just rang the bell) and he asked me where I was going and told me to stay if I didn’t want a slap. I humoured him but made sure to buy him and his poor wife a drink before I left.
Have you ever met him outside his comfort zone, i.e. not in a bar with his hangers-on? He is a completely different animal. I consider myself very fortunate… He owes me money. He made a bet with me and lost and made a complete ar5ehole of himself. I’ve seen him on the escalator on Tesco/Lotus and then on the escalator in Big C and he looks the other way. He is a spineless *****.
His choices are limited with the demise of fahlang alley. You want to know where he drinks, look at the map. He loves attention. He will go to ALL of the bars if it can satisfy his lust for attention. Last time I seen him was in Mojo’s… The pool competition was on so nobody was interested in him. He knocked back 1 drink and his little lackey toddled on after him. You do not need to know his name… When you hear his mouth you will know. I call him Mister Thrush, the most irritating cu*t in Udon Thani.
Indeed, as I said, I've never witnessed him being threatening, or violent before - boorish yes, but physical no!
1) To the best of my recollection, since moving to Udon, I have only ever posted about my lack of satisfaction with one product that I received have and never, negatively, done so about any Udon establishment.banpaeng wrote:I think someone said eairler they smelled a troll. I am not sure but I do not believe all I read here either. This story gets a bit stranger by the updaates. I was in Udon for 2 years and very seldom ran into somone I knew let alone someone I might not like to see. Second Mr. Zoom this is your second time around for trying to post on a couple of establishments of your disapproval. Last time you were also the victim. You said you are non violent, horsefeathers, as I know you have tried to get a couple of members to meet you only because they disagree with your point of view (which is the only one correct) when you wanted to fight. I know as you even ask me. What a waste!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If this happened to you, it might not be good but I do like how you are always the victim.
There are a few disagreeable types whom I thought should leave Thailand but what I learned is that the Thai's have a very distinct way of handleing trouble makers, though maybe not as quick or visual as one might like, it seems to work.
BobHelm gave the best advice, Let it lay.
No more post to this for me, as a bit in ones own mind i do believe.
That is excluding AIS, who I think are fair game for anyone!
Having said that, I don't see what would be wrong with doing so in the event of a lack of satisfaction, in the same way that good comments should also be welcome.
Are you suggesting that all posts concerning establishments in Udon can only be positive?
2) I find your comments regarding my wanting to meet up with members "to fight" offensive and would ask you to either retract them and apologise or provide evidence to support your libel!
I did, on one occasion, prior to leaving the UK, react to a post from one member which threatened (if I recall correctly) to "kick my f***ing head in" and invited him, at that stage, to attempt it when I eventually arrived.
That, though, was around 3 years ago and needless to say, nothing ever happened and I no longer even respond to his posts.
Unless, though, you have multiple user names it, certainly, was not yourself!
Ccausing bars owners to bar him is not a good option as they are in business to make money, how is not a problem if the bar has trouble with him, they will deal with it.
As for naming him, we all know what that could do, I feel that as we now all know what has occurred, maybe he will eventually get the message that people will not wish to drink with him or at the same bar he is in, then bar owners will see that his presence is causing them to lose trade and they will have options . We can drink in any bar we like, where he is we do not go, he cannot be in all bars all of the time. I am sure that we know our favourite bar owners and we can talk to them so that they understand. Ignoring him, leaving him alone wherever he is, he will either leave or go to another place in Thailand. Good riddance. seeking evenge in any form is NOT to be advised. As in school send him to Coventry.
As for naming him, we all know what that could do, I feel that as we now all know what has occurred, maybe he will eventually get the message that people will not wish to drink with him or at the same bar he is in, then bar owners will see that his presence is causing them to lose trade and they will have options . We can drink in any bar we like, where he is we do not go, he cannot be in all bars all of the time. I am sure that we know our favourite bar owners and we can talk to them so that they understand. Ignoring him, leaving him alone wherever he is, he will either leave or go to another place in Thailand. Good riddance. seeking evenge in any form is NOT to be advised. As in school send him to Coventry.
Guns
And the attention seeker lost all attention. What no friends. zoom zoom.
Its me the so called Ass****.
Any one wanting to know who i am should visit the Koala and see jan from aussie pub who is in there temporrery and ask him, Also you can ask Sam at mollys and here the real story.
So everyone is now fed up with your booring story which is not exactlly true, and as for you guys who posted all the rubish well you should first find out the facts before posting.
Its me the so called Ass****.
Any one wanting to know who i am should visit the Koala and see jan from aussie pub who is in there temporrery and ask him, Also you can ask Sam at mollys and here the real story.
So everyone is now fed up with your booring story which is not exactlly true, and as for you guys who posted all the rubish well you should first find out the facts before posting.
And skydiver did Irish Alan decribe you well,so please just to get the records straight,you frequent aussie bar,molly malones,have been seen in Mojos,any other places like Fiddlers Green or the real Aussie Bar just so that I know where not to spend my money if they are so keen to have yours.
And your side of the story is............................................................
And your side of the story is............................................................
This Thug,by the sound of It is loaded.If in a
fight with him, and you win him over,Police will still come looking for you.He will feed them tea money.you wont win.Best let Thai style method.I was told,a thai man and his g/f was is a bar(I think Mr Tongs)An ars..le farang insulted his g/f.Her Thai b/f did nothing.But when the farang left the bar, a short distance up the road,WHACK! a 4X2 SMACKED HIM ROUND THE HEAD!
He ended with a wired up broken Jaw! These Thais dont Do things by halves!and they make sure they are long gone after.
About 7 years ago,I was involved in a dispute with a Thai family.One evening while walking down my Soi,4 Thai men came out the bushes.Beat f..ck out of me with thick bamboo sticks!
I could not walk for 3 weeks!Police never did a thing!
I dont go to bars.....Too dangerious
fight with him, and you win him over,Police will still come looking for you.He will feed them tea money.you wont win.Best let Thai style method.I was told,a thai man and his g/f was is a bar(I think Mr Tongs)An ars..le farang insulted his g/f.Her Thai b/f did nothing.But when the farang left the bar, a short distance up the road,WHACK! a 4X2 SMACKED HIM ROUND THE HEAD!
He ended with a wired up broken Jaw! These Thais dont Do things by halves!and they make sure they are long gone after.
About 7 years ago,I was involved in a dispute with a Thai family.One evening while walking down my Soi,4 Thai men came out the bushes.Beat f..ck out of me with thick bamboo sticks!
I could not walk for 3 weeks!Police never did a thing!
I dont go to bars.....Too dangerious
And still the guys who have posted on this subject dont know who i am, and as for irish alan you dont have a clue and i am certanly not the person in your post.
And as for talking me a long time to reply well i have other things to do than spend 23 hrs a day on udon map spreading gossip must be a sad life for you people. It was a friend who brought it to my attention.
so for you people who dont want to drink in the same pubs as me then you should leave udon because i drink in them all except assie bar and have done for the last 3 years.
And as for telling my version of the story well i would never do that as people would only gossip so if you want to hear the real version then visit and speak with the persons i have mentiond.
So this is the last from me on this subject and a real man would not have even started this thread and solved the problem himself.
And as for talking me a long time to reply well i have other things to do than spend 23 hrs a day on udon map spreading gossip must be a sad life for you people. It was a friend who brought it to my attention.
so for you people who dont want to drink in the same pubs as me then you should leave udon because i drink in them all except assie bar and have done for the last 3 years.
And as for telling my version of the story well i would never do that as people would only gossip so if you want to hear the real version then visit and speak with the persons i have mentiond.
So this is the last from me on this subject and a real man would not have even started this thread and solved the problem himself.
Oh yes, I have heard a lot about this fiendish pervert. He, at one time propositioned my buddies wife, while he went to the toilet after dinner and a few drinks one night. She didn't want her husband to cause a scene, so told him of the incident while on their way home. Of course my buddy was furious, turned the car around, went back to find the guy, but never seen him again.
Is this, the guy?
Is this, the guy?
OK my 2 pennies worth...
I do not know either of the participants of these encounters.
Entirety from what I have read on this thread I hope this remains the case.
I cannot believe that people can be so childish as to come to physical assaults on each other over such a trivial matter... I can now understand why Thai people treat Falang with such disdain...
I do not know either of the participants of these encounters.
Entirety from what I have read on this thread I hope this remains the case.
I cannot believe that people can be so childish as to come to physical assaults on each other over such a trivial matter... I can now understand why Thai people treat Falang with such disdain...
pretty much why i have always, usually, eaten and entertained myself in restaurants as opposed to bars. if there's more people for the beverages than food, i usually won't be in there. irish clock, nobi's, tj's, nong's is about the extent of my round making of places that serve alcohol. waiting for UP2U to return, and the night market for my more than dinner beverage nights. tho that may be coming to and end, of back to tuk tuk and hotels. saw a sign on mall road, little pre warning of pending alcohol checks in the future. a good thing.
don't know and don't care, as doubtful i'll ever cross paths with anyone in those circustances, with few exceptions, i keep my wits about me and i'm an early bird. usually have a tough time getting past that free one at the night market, which means a long night. off them towers, they can be dangerous. give me my 3+1, and it's a long night, and 100 baht cheaper.
don't know and don't care, as doubtful i'll ever cross paths with anyone in those circustances, with few exceptions, i keep my wits about me and i'm an early bird. usually have a tough time getting past that free one at the night market, which means a long night. off them towers, they can be dangerous. give me my 3+1, and it's a long night, and 100 baht cheaper.